He was unfaithful many times and we are getting a divorce. What do I do about the family that was also my family. We did not have kids together but my kids were accepted into his family with open arms. Do I ask everyone individually? With Social Media its so hard, you can have tons of people on there but its so hard to tell who is there just to watch what is going on in your life.. There is 14 extended family members from siblings, to parents, to aunt and uncles, cousins. I wouldnt be holding on to them to keep him close, he could fall off the side of the earth and I wouldnt care. But those people did nothing wrong and I love them so much. What do I do?