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Im leaving my husband after 20 years need support

Ive been with my husband 20 years. That last 3 have been actually killing me. I have diagnosed heart failure at 45. Ive lost 50 pounds last 6 months. There was a time i knew he was in love with me. He did things to include me in his world. He would call me just to hear me breath. You can feel that IN LOVE feeling it when its there. A few years ago i learned he had a bunch of credit cards that i knew nothing about! Some of these were thousands of thousands dollars. He maxed em all out and it put us in a position of having to file bankruptcy. I wanted to leave then. He said he wanted to work on it he ask me to stay. I tried i wanted us. Its only gotten worse. I keep getting signs hes not all in on this marriage. He is neglectful of my needs. He is so blind to my obvious suffering. He has gone on trips solo for several years ( i cant get as much vacation as he has) i never cared that he did the trips. This trip hes on now he didn’t text or call at all 5 days straight. I called him our on it and he didn’t even realize that he hadn’t contacted me in that long. He just said he’s been busy. **** not acceptable also, let me know that his head is not at home

Re: Im leaving my husband after 20 years need support

If you don’t have family that are supportive find a divorce group to help you. He sounds like a narcissistic jerk. You are better off alone but you definitely need people in your life to be there during your illness. Whether that’s a church or some other type of community. He’s just not there for you. I hate that kind of treatment. You deserve so much better!

Re: Im leaving my husband after 20 years need support

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