You will be alright and come away from this as a better, stronger person.

Moving forward, ask yourself what you want in a partner and if he doesn't match that description, then you have your answer on if you stay or leave.

Finding a good therapist to help you build your self worth is going to be important. Also, you might qualify for state insurance.

Hope you find your happiness.

You deserve to have your boundaries respected. It sounds like he’s been inching further and further towards a life he wants but you are miserable in. Try to look forward to how much better a life without him will be. A life where you can so “no” and be heard.