I asked for a divorce a year ago, we separated and it got so ugly then he begged and then it has been a roller coaster of emotions. I want out, why does the state make you wait? I am an adult I should be able to make this decision. Today , has been one of those days and it isn’t even noon. I want my life back, I want my own place, he is in the house…no mortgage and I don’t have all my stuff. Limbo is not a healthy place to live. Just venting and I am blessed to have a super supportive group of family and friends. Just having a rough day.