Well where do I begin I have so much to tell lol married for 26yrs up until 5mths and I finally divorced him. We have 4 children together and for the last 8yrs I have been paying all the bills by myself... I know I know it's like wtffff I'm so upset with my self for enabling this in the first place.... I was stuck in some kind of dumb cloud until one day I just woke up like why am I letting this dude use me and take advantage of me... again I'm really disappointed in myself for allowing this nonsense to go on for so long. But anyway once I realized my mistake I brought it to his attention and he had the nerve to have a problem with paying his part of his financial responsibilities and that's when it clicked. Time for divorce so now it's been 5mths since I've divorced him and he will not leave house. Can you believe this absolutely ridiculous what type of person is this dude I have no idea who he is it's like a complete stranger. First you use me for 8yrs and get away with out paying bills now I finally call you out and then divorce you. And you are now lost well.i really don't care you can go live with your sister but you have to get up out of here.