I have cried on and off for three days. It is very unfair. My husband left me and my 3 adult disabled children and moved in with another woman after 42 years of marriage. I don't work, so I am totally dependent on him. It has been almost 10 months, and we haven't even talked to anyone from the courts, yet, partly due to my attorney. So, my dad died on Thanksgiving day 8 years, and this was our first Thanksgiving without my husband, so, 💔, that about says it all.