Hopefully you send your kid to these schools for the education first. If you insist parti****tion in sports be a part of it be realistic about your kids skill level.
Not a fan of SJP but they do produce great students - something this cat is missing.
They are losing a lot of kids to BHA.
Not sure who these lost kids might be? Huge numbers tried out. Many talented kids cut. BHA and other like acedemy programs are a very different path from SJP and other MIAA programs.
My kid was cut from Varsity along with about 45 other kids. He knew he wouldn’t make it but loves the school. He and 15 of the other cut kids jumped on a club team and and are playing together. Guarantee you 14 of those 15 think they didn’t make it because they weren’t good enough. My kid came home after day 1 of tryouts and said “these freshmen are way better than me.” You know what he is going to do? Play on his club team and go to SJP and root for his friends/classmates that are better than him.