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Re: Stay or go?

Went through something similar and transferred back to a U18 to get more play time. This was our advisor’s suggestion. Our Tier 2 juniors coach wasn’t as supportive and encouraging as yours though. Also there could be opportunities for your son where he is, (I assume NAHL) as players unfortunately get injured as the season goes along. But ultimately do what your son wants. It’s his journey. As an 03, he has time to go back next year and after, if he wants to.

Re: Stay or go?

Have him go out there and earn his ice. It's a very long season.

Re: Stay or go?

Playing in the NAHL is a privilege. There are thousands of kids all over the world that tryout every year and get cut, and your son is already on a roster, has 3 years of elibility, seems liked, and is considering leaving so someone else can replace him?
One or two players get injured and its a totally different season. I'd stay, tell him to outwork everyone in practice, and see what happens. Like someone said, at least until the holidays.

Re: Stay or go?

Seems to me that, if the organization truly thinks your kid is an asset, they will start playing him soon. A Tier 2 team does not develop an asset by making him a practice player, only, so if they keep him in that role they don't consider him an asset. And, your son isn't developing only by practicing.

So, if they don't put him in games soon, like by Thanksgiving, bolt. They are keeping him around only as an insurance policy in case a roster player gets hurt. And, if that is all they think of him, do you really think that will suddenly change next year? Again, he is only an insurance policy in case they can't find anyone better.

Waiting your turn might be fine if you are at a good NCAA school. You are getting an education and being groomed for your junior and senior year. It is not okay if your kid is postponing his education with the hope of getting to the NCAA. These Tier 2 teams couldn't care less about your kid, and the treatment you describe proves that.

Re: Stay or go?

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Seems to me that, if the organization truly thinks your kid is an asset, they will start playing him soon. A Tier 2 team does not develop an asset by making him a practice player, only, so if they keep him in that role they don't consider him an asset. And, your son isn't developing only by practicing.

So, if they don't put him in games soon, like by Thanksgiving, bolt. They are keeping him around only as an insurance policy in case a roster player gets hurt. And, if that is all they think of him, do you really think that will suddenly change next year? Again, he is only an insurance policy in case they can't find anyone better.

Waiting your turn might be fine if you are at a good NCAA school. You are getting an education and being groomed for your junior and senior year. It is not okay if your kid is postponing his education with the hope of getting to the NCAA. These Tier 2 teams couldn't care less about your kid, and the treatment you describe proves that.
This is correct. On top of that, if the organization did value your player as an asset they know that he needs to be playing games to develop rather than healthy scratching him every game. They would be talking to you about sending him to U18 or even Tier 3 to get game time in and will follow his progress. Many of the NAHL teams have NA3 affiliates they send players to that shuttle back and forth between the NA and NA3 team.

I wouldn't just pull your kid out. He needs to have a conversation with the coach about this and tell the coach that he needs to play to develop and see if some sort of arrangement can be worked out with an affiliate team.

Re: Stay or go?

Bring him home so another parent can post on here about how a tier 2 kid came home and forced their kid out of a spot