Us parents learned from the Elite parents to blame it all on the coach! It's a mutiny!
Goalie Dad, your to new to all of this to get caught up in the fault game. Its the 5 kids on the ice plus the goalies fault when a goal is scored, if your going to start getting over defensive now, burn the equipment and have your kid learn to play out.
So I think we've covered all the possibilities - Goalie dads blame D, D dads blame Forwards, everyone blames the coach.
Strip that all aside and we get to - if you don't know when it was your kid that made the mistake that led to the goal, you're still watching the game through Daddy Goggles.
And it's OK if your kid makes a mistake. It's a game of mistakes. The best kids learn from them. Some don't.
I guess that's why it's a 'team sport.'