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There are good refs and then there are the rest. IMO officiating has gone downhill the past few years. Seems the Refs do not want to blow whistle and let a lot go. Which can lead to incidents like the one in this post. Not saying that's what happened here but I have been watching it go one for a while.
I think you just need to move on. It's an unhealthy obsession...there are bigger issues to worry about than one year, one organization. Hopefully your kid will make the team you want next season and you can put it all to rest.
The issue you fail to recognize is these kids play with intensity. When the other team is equally intense there can be conflict. My son's team has played them without incident and they've played them tough on other occasions and it became a physical game. I think they're a good team. When they get pushed, they push back. Don't get mad at them. Every team does it at that age group and older. If the refs are light with the whistles, games will get out of hand. If you think they are playing any more physical or dirty than any other teams, watch the games a little more closely, you're probably missing something.
Maybe time to play another sport ....
I'm the mother of the boy this thread is referring to. Where should I put an update so it's seen by everyone on this thread? Maybe make a new one?
I disagree. People would like to know if your son is OK.
It's an update but more of a PSA.
He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won't be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.
I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF's and learned that the league and MMF's were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF's were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don't assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.
I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
Here we go. Hope mom is thick skinned. Can't say we didn't warn you.