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Anon
Jan 23, 2018 - 9:47AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
I think you just need to move on. It's an unhealthy obsession...there are bigger issues to worry about than one year, one organization. Hopefully your kid will make the team you want next season and you can put it all to rest.
No you are incorrect, there have been multiple people on this board complaining about the Viper organization, in particular the parents. You can't blame their kids when their parents act inappropriately at games.

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Anon
Jan 23, 2018 - 4:03PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

The issue you fail to recognize is these kids play with intensity. When the other team is equally intense there can be conflict. My son's team has played them without incident and they've played them tough on other occasions and it became a physical game. I think they're a good team. When they get pushed, they push back. Don't get mad at them. Every team does it at that age group and older. If the refs are light with the whistles, games will get out of hand. If you think they are playing any more physical or dirty than any other teams, watch the games a little more closely, you're probably missing something.

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Anon
Jan 23, 2018 - 5:53PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Anon
The issue you fail to recognize is these kids play with intensity. When the other team is equally intense there can be conflict. My son's team has played them without incident and they've played them tough on other occasions and it became a physical game. I think they're a good team. When they get pushed, they push back. Don't get mad at them. Every team does it at that age group and older. If the refs are light with the whistles, games will get out of hand. If you think they are playing any more physical or dirty than any other teams, watch the games a little more closely, you're probably missing something.
Intensity is one thing, going at kids from behind is dirty. Intensity is a part of every sport, but so isn't fair play. Maybe their coach should teach them how to harness their intensity to coincide with the game. Taking a head shot on a kid from behind isn't intensity in anyone's book. That type of play wouldn't be tolerated on my team ever. And the fact that he went after a kid who had his back to him, wasn't even involved in the previous skirmishes, and was smaller than him speaks volumes about his upbringing and character. Why take on the kid that might kick your ass when you can cheap shot an unsuspecting one. Hockey karma is a mother, I'm sure every kid on that other team remembers his name and number. You know how it goes " boys will be boys "

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Ani
Jan 26, 2018 - 3:31PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Maybe time to play another sport ....

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Mom
Jan 29, 2018 - 9:44AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

I'm the mother of the boy this thread is referring to. Where should I put an update so it's seen by everyone on this thread? Maybe make a new one?

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 10:13AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
I'm the mother of the boy this thread is referring to. Where should I put an update so it's seen by everyone on this thread? Maybe make a new one?
Do your kid a favor, and don't. No good will come of it. This isn't a "news outlet."

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 11:09AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

I disagree. People would like to know if your son is OK.

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 11:51AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
I disagree. People would like to know if your son is OK.
No they don't. People just want to flame. Spare the family the trouble and stop convincing them to post by pretending to care.

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 12:09PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
anon
I disagree. People would like to know if your son is OK.
No they don't. People just want to flame. Spare the family the trouble and stop convincing them to post by pretending to care.
Awww, c'mon, it'll be fun! Not like a mom is going to be emotional about their kid being ripped a part in an anonymous internet forum.

Besides, how bad could it get? I mean, an adult knows better than to call a 5 year old a ******* publicly, don't they?

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 11:35AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
I'm the mother of the boy this thread is referring to. Where should I put an update so it's seen by everyone on this thread? Maybe make a new one?
Awww, come on, you took it down. I was waiting to see the responses. Would have loved to get one from the kid's Mom on the other team. Does Dad know you posted?

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 11:36AM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
I'm the mother of the boy this thread is referring to. Where should I put an update so it's seen by everyone on this thread? Maybe make a new one?
I hope your son is OK.

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Mom
Jan 29, 2018 - 12:38PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

It's an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won't be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF's and learned that the league and MMF's were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF's were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don't assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 12:52PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
It's an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won't be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF's and learned that the league and MMF's were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF's were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don't assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
Are you from Andover? Would make sense.

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:00PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
It's an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won't be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF's and learned that the league and MMF's were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF's were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don't assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
So here is my question..and I'm glad your Son is OK..were you at the game and did you think this was a dirty hit and do you think your Son's team's team was an instigated it like a previous poster said?

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:04PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Mom
It's an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won't be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF's and learned that the league and MMF's were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF's were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don't assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
What?!?

While unfortunate, and while I hope your kid feels better, how is a stick to the head an "unsafe situation" that can be "prevented in the future...if the proper people are aware of the problem?" What bureaucratic or legislative solution are you proposing?

I know, lets send every parent to the rink with their cell phones and tape every game. Every time there's a dirty play, report it to the DCF and require a full investigation. Let's bog down the whole state child welfare process so we can look into a slashing call.

BTW, that "very responsive" response you got? It was their way of placating you while your name is added to the EHF black ball list as "meddlesome parent - do not put son on team."

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:18PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
Mom
It\'s an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won\'t be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF\'s and learned that the league and MMF\'s were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF\'s were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don\'t assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
What?!?

While unfortunate, and while I hope your kid feels better, how is a stick to the head an "unsafe situation" that can be "prevented in the future...if the proper people are aware of the problem?" What bureaucratic or legislative solution are you proposing?

I know, lets send every parent to the rink with their cell phones and tape every game. Every time there's a dirty play, report it to the DCF and require a full investigation. Let's bog down the whole state child welfare process so we can look into a slashing call.

BTW, that "very responsive" response you got? It was their way of placating you while your name is added to the EHF black ball list as "meddlesome parent - do not put son on team."
Well, if there are more harsh punishments handed out, coaches may think of controlling their kids and kids may think twice about controlling themselves so they don't miss more games. Not really a bad thing.

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ANON
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:19PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
Mom
It\'s an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won\'t be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF\'s and learned that the league and MMF\'s were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF\'s were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don\'t assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
What?!?

While unfortunate, and while I hope your kid feels better, how is a stick to the head an "unsafe situation" that can be "prevented in the future...if the proper people are aware of the problem?" What bureaucratic or legislative solution are you proposing?

I know, lets send every parent to the rink with their cell phones and tape every game. Every time there's a dirty play, report it to the DCF and require a full investigation. Let's bog down the whole state child welfare process so we can look into a slashing call.

BTW, that "very responsive" response you got? It was their way of placating you while your name is added to the EHF black ball list as "meddlesome parent - do not put son on team."
Can we move on to another topic...:racehorse: + :ice_hockey_stick_and_puck:

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Anonee
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:32PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

anon
Mom
It\'s an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won\'t be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF\'s and learned that the league and MMF\'s were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF\'s were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don\'t assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
What?!?

While unfortunate, and while I hope your kid feels better, how is a stick to the head an "unsafe situation" that can be "prevented in the future...if the proper people are aware of the problem?" What bureaucratic or legislative solution are you proposing?

I know, lets send every parent to the rink with their cell phones and tape every game. Every time there's a dirty play, report it to the DCF and require a full investigation. Let's bog down the whole state child welfare process so we can look into a slashing call.

BTW, that "very responsive" response you got? It was their way of placating you while your name is added to the EHF black ball list as "meddlesome parent - do not put son on team."
Mom: Please forgive "What?!?" guy for his crude response. He is also recovering from a concussion he got when he was a PW.

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 1:39PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Here we go. Hope mom is thick skinned. Can't say we didn't warn you.

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anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 2:04PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Anonee
anon
Mom
It\\\'s an update but more of a PSA.

He was diagnosed with a concussion, out of school for two days, out of hockey for the week, follow-up at the Pediatrician today, still having headaches, probably won\\\'t be cleared for this week either. He was pretty bummed about watching his team play four games this weekend in NH from the bench. But he understands why.

I reached out to the league, the ref in charge and the MMF\\\'s and learned that the league and MMF\\\'s were not aware of the incident; it was never reported. Another parent had already emailed the RIF and neither one of us received a response. The director of MassConn, the EHF director and director of MMF\\\'s were very responsive once I submitted my report. I urge everyone; coaches, parents, etc to report unsafe situations. Don\\\'t assume it has already been reported. Situations such as this can be prevented in the future but only if the proper people are aware of the problem.

I want to thank everyone who documented what happened on this forum. And thank you for your concern.
What?!?

While unfortunate, and while I hope your kid feels better, how is a stick to the head an \"unsafe situation\" that can be \"prevented in the future...if the proper people are aware of the problem?\" What bureaucratic or legislative solution are you proposing?

I know, lets send every parent to the rink with their cell phones and tape every game. Every time there\'s a dirty play, report it to the DCF and require a full investigation. Let\'s bog down the whole state child welfare process so we can look into a slashing call.

BTW, that \"very responsive\" response you got? It was their way of placating you while your name is added to the EHF black ball list as \"meddlesome parent - do not put son on team.\"
Mom: Please forgive "What?!?" guy for his crude response. He is also recovering from a concussion he got when he was a PW.
You're right, I've reconsidered. I am all in favor of a legislated response to violence in youth sports. That's why we pay taxes. Offending kids should be removed from the ice in irons, I mean handcuffs and stand trial.

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 2:47PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

#Martha..

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Anon
Jan 29, 2018 - 3:03PM
Re: Horrible scene at NESC

Anon
#Martha..
I love it that Mom thinks if you ***** to the right people they will step in and put an end to stick-swinging. #pollyanna

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