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Re: why are you doing this?

Anon
I agree with letting the kid make the call as much as possible. My 09 will play his first year in Fed elite next year. He let us know last year that he wanted to be on the ice as much as possible. Didn\'t want to continue with soccer. Only wanted to play lacrosse in the Spring but with the understanding that a CCM or Blue Chip tourney or hockey skills comes first. Part of that was the carrot being dangled in that he knew kids that had gone from town to Fed. Part of it was him just wanting to be a hockey player. My 11 tags along as much as he wants. But he also wants to play soccer and have play dates and be on the video games. So we keep him playing town hockey, and if he ever decides that he wants to move up, we make a change.

What a load of BS. No 09 lays down an "understanding that a CCM or Blue Chip tourney or hockey skills comes first." That's coming from you. It's OK, just admit it. You and the kid will be better off.

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Of course it's me that makes that decision. My kid is going from town to elite hockey. If he wants to go that route, he's not going in unprepared....especially in his first year where the transition is hard. My point is that if you have a kid who wants to focus on hockey at the expense of other activities, you have to go after that. One of my kids does. The other doesn't.

Re: why are you doing this?

Anon
Of course it's me that makes that decision. My kid is going from town to elite hockey. If he wants to go that route, he's not going in unprepared....especially in his first year where the transition is hard. My point is that if you have a kid who wants to focus on hockey at the expense of other activities, you have to go after that. One of my kids does. The other doesn't.
So if one kid wants it and the other one doesn't, who exactly is making the decision? You, or them?

Maybe you misunderstood the question. It WAS a little metaphorical.

Re: why are you doing this?

Anon
Of course it\'s me that makes that decision. My kid is going from town to elite hockey. If he wants to go that route, he\'s not going in unprepared....especially in his first year where the transition is hard. My point is that if you have a kid who wants to focus on hockey at the expense of other activities, you have to go after that. One of my kids does. The other doesn\'t.
You mean T1 Silver, correct? just be honest, he's not on the E-team. Town to Elite Fed doesn't happen for 1st year SQ, generally. E-team was picked way before tryouts, and way before "town kids" got on their radar.

Re: why are you doing this?

anon
Anon
Of course it\\\'s me that makes that decision. My kid is going from town to elite hockey. If he wants to go that route, he\\\'s not going in unprepared....especially in his first year where the transition is hard. My point is that if you have a kid who wants to focus on hockey at the expense of other activities, you have to go after that. One of my kids does. The other doesn\\\'t.
You mean T1 Silver, correct? just be honest, he's not on the E-team. Town to Elite Fed doesn't happen for 1st year SQ, generally. E-team was picked way before tryouts, and way before "town kids" got on their radar.
Get over yourself. Of course it does. If you said first year peewee, then maybe I'd agree. But mites to squirts it definitely happens.

Re: why are you doing this?

Danny Gare
Anon
Just wondering - why are you doing this? Pushing your kids with \'full-time\' hockey? I am in the same boat, so I am not criticizing. Just want to find out what others are feeling. What is your goal for your kid? Especially for Mite parents. Kid at 6, 7, 8 cannot absolutely LOVE it as they are still forming as individuals so it has to be the parents\' push in most cases. BTW, 90% of Mites are not great - where to next?
It's the greatest game on earth. If you have played competitively in high school, college and beyond you understand it. That doesn't mean you can't appreciate it and be in love with it if you haven't played. I just know I have the greatest memories of my former teammates from mites through college. Incredible stories and good times. I met some unreal people who I am still extremely close with. You learn life lessons like team building, character, toughness and leadership. There will be some insane stories and an opportunities to meet some real beauties along the way.

If you have an athletic and driven child who loves hockey, you are on the road to some great memories. You will need to learn how and when to push and when to back off. Give them the opportunities and see what happens. If you are lucky enough to have a child play past high school you are fortunate and you will understand just what the game can do for a person.
lol ok jon

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I do it because I like the rink food.

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Because it's a heck of a lot of fun not only for the kids, parents and families. The journey from LTS to current level has been amazing and a blessing for the whole family. Those who have played at any level know what an amazing sport it is. Very similar to Golf you can play this game for a lifetime. I push my kids as I want them to achive the highest level of success in whatever they do. I push them to play as much as possible unlike other sports Hockey has so many areas to work on and rewards you with very tangible improvement quickly.

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I do it to coach....because there are some moms who really want their kid on my team

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Hey-o
I do it to coach....because there are some moms who really want their kid on my team
This is the mission statement of the CT Huskies.

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That is as good as it gets for some dealing with a has been coach trying to relive his glory days. funny hockey is full of those types more than any other sport.

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Beleive me, if the kid is even a marginal athlete ditch hockey for lacrosse. 50 man rosters, D-1 teams springing up all over the country, cheaper than hockey, no two years of juniors only to report to his college team at the age of 21. . . This game is a dead-end sport for 98% of the kids.

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I have obsereved the most disturbing behavior exhibited by young kids this year in our hockey circuit. I have witnessed 7-8 year old kids punching and spitting at there parents ,other team mates, and coaches. Fist fighting in the locker room while the parent of the agressor observes and lets it happen at the same time the kids parent who is on the short end is not in attendance only validates that the parents are demented. I have seen public on ice meltdowns and coach attacks by kids. When you push a child real hard into something you percieve they like and the kid does not have the wherewithal or emotional interlect to communicate back to the parent you get pandoras box as a constellation prize. I would think that some of these demented parents beat there kids physically and or emotionally when they do not perform well in a game. I have to say that some of these kids play well but if you played a sport for Kim Jong-UN you know you will have to do well or he will kill you! Its only a matter of time before a kid blows a circuit and circles back in a real negative way on a parent!

Re: why are you doing this?

Anon
I have obsereved the most disturbing behavior exhibited by young kids this year in our hockey circuit. I have witnessed 7-8 year old kids punching and spitting at there parents ,other team mates, and coaches. Fist fighting in the locker room while the parent of the agressor observes and lets it happen at the same time the kids parent who is on the short end is not in attendance only validates that the parents are demented. I have seen public on ice meltdowns and coach attacks by kids. When you push a child real hard into something you percieve they like and the kid does not have the wherewithal or emotional interlect to communicate back to the parent you get pandoras box as a constellation prize. I would think that some of these demented parents beat there kids physically and or emotionally when they do not perform well in a game. I have to say that some of these kids play well but if you played a sport for Kim Jong-UN you know you will have to do well or he will kill you! Its only a matter of time before a kid blows a circuit and circles back in a real negative way on a parent!
Please select A, B, C or D.


This all took place at:

a. Bandits
B. Shamrocks
c. Top Gun
d. Vipers

Re: why are you doing this?

Anon
Just wondering - why are you doing this? Pushing your kids with 'full-time' hockey? I am in the same boat, so I am not criticizing. Just want to find out what others are feeling. What is your goal for your kid? Especially for Mite parents. Kid at 6, 7, 8 cannot absolutely LOVE it as they are still forming as individuals so it has to be the parents' push in most cases. BTW, 90% of Mites are not great - where to next?
My 06 son always wanted and still wants to play full time at a competitive level. We only push him to work hard at anything he does. He never said I don't want to go to practice or skills he is self driven and when and if he wants out we will let him make his own choices.

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Parents are the problem! There is a dad on the south shore who used to play college hockey, and he is the creepiest dad. I believe he is coaching town hockey cause his son got cut. He actually got a penalty report of a competing child and sent it to a hockey organization to prevent a kid from making a team. How he got the kids information is creepy and that he would take such action is insane! Creepy, gross and insane!

Re: why are you doing this?

what a DB