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Divorce lessons
Hi all! I am conducting a research about women in divorce process. I need your help to gather data for my research and empower women as a result.
If you are willing to help me, please share an action (related to your divorce or separation) you took over the past w...
Views: 254 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 10, 2019 3:55am
by Yogaislife
by Yogaislife
Soon to be separated...broken.
Hi,
I have been married for 13 years and we have been together for 15 1/2 years. The other day he told me that he felt we should..”go our separate ways”....& to be honest I agreed because the feeling of love has been gone for a while from his part. I hav...
Views: 260 Replies: 4
Last Post: Oct 8, 2019 7:30pm
by Laur
by Laur
1st Meeting with Divorce Lawyer
I’m so nervous I can throw 😩 I’m in the lobby with so many thoughts , emotions I need to calm down ... first step towards a happier, healthier future... right?!
Views: 250 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 8, 2019 11:36am
by Light
by Light
Still grieving the marriage...
My husband and I have separated gotten back together separated... We have done the dance several times since our inital split in 2015. He met a woman recently and wants to get serious about that relationship. He decided not to be a step-father (after 12 years) and is...
Views: 222 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 8, 2019 11:27am
by Light
by Light
Said something stupid, now full of regret.
My (probably future ex) husband and I have been separated for a couple of months now. I've been trying to "play it cool" and not be too needy, and this had been working out pretty good for a while. I have my own stuff going on and so does he, so it's easy for us to j...
Views: 212 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 7, 2019 2:48pm
by Lisa
by Lisa
Need real lawyer advice
I know my husband cheated, because he gave me std. He still denies it, which is unbelievable. Anyway, what would a judge consider proof. How do you prove that because it would be he said she said.
Or
I live in Alabama. Does it really matter if he cheated. How shou...
Views: 190 Replies: 0
Last Post: Oct 5, 2019 10:53am
by Mickey
by Mickey
Grown but still struggling
My parents divorced almost ten years ago. I'm a grown woman now but I still struggle with certain aspects of it. When they split my father abandoned us and we lived in poverty for a few years. It took a long time for me to forgive him and welcome into my life again....
Views: 215 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 5, 2019 5:29am
by Hillary
by Hillary
Ex-husband doesn't following visitation schedule
I've been divorced since July 2018 and we have 3 DD together. I am the primary custodial parent. Since he left the house (with my best friend at the time) he very rarely sees the kiddos. It is like pulling teeth to get him to have the kids like he is supposed to. It...
Views: 118 Replies: 0
Last Post: Oct 5, 2019 5:24am
by Hillary
by Hillary
I've lost my mind
I've lost my mind. I don't know where to turn. I've deleted all of my social media contacts, and also deleted all of my mail. I deleted everything because I felt so alone and never knew how to reach out to people for help. I don't know if I can afford a divorce and I...
Views: 225 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 3, 2019 11:32am
by Renee1227
by Renee1227
monmouth county new jersey lawyer
My lawyer is dragging out our negotiation process and is not as aggressive/sharp as my husbands lawyer. I find I am asking her questions that she should be advising me on, and fear she just wants to take the easiest path to finish. Can anyone suggest a lawyer in Monm...
Views: 203 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 2, 2019 9:05am
by Jill
by Jill
Custody and neglect
When my daughter was first born 12 years ago I served her mom with custody papers. Stating we both have half and half. But she hasnt been around for 8 or 9 years. Are the custody papers now void because of neglect?
Views: 147 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 1, 2019 12:14pm
by Light
by Light
What happens to me, my fiancé died and his ex feels entitled to everything.
I have been with my fiancé for years now after he filed for a divorce from his ex.. I met him after he had already filed and the divorce was not finalized that we know of, it has been a very horrible process and was too much stress for him, which his body could...
Views: 198 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 1, 2019 12:01pm
by Light
by Light
Devastated
My best friend had her baby today. It was long awaited and should have been joyful for me. However her brother is my husband whom asked me for a divorce on Monday. I was doing fine at the hospital all day until my husband arrived and I lost it. I sat with his family...
Views: 269 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 12:47pm
by Lara
by Lara
Divorce support
I'm so alone and lost. Ex divorced me after 30 years of marriage. Hard to go on. Help.
Views: 227 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 12:27pm
by Lara
by Lara
Newlywed divorce
So a little background, I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 2. We got together when I was 17 and he was 28 and for a long time things were great, but now all of the small things are overwhelming me.
We never used to go out much, he would always compl...
Views: 191 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 10:53am
by Sally
by Sally
Feeling defeated
My ex is extremely vindictive. When we separated he was to move to MO and instead filed behind my back where the judge then ordered my son back. Even after showing proof he said I could leave and he would be moving there. That judge took my son from his mother and br...
Views: 217 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 7:15am
by Nonny
by Nonny
Florida Divorce
Hello,
Anyone know if a lawyer has to give you an answer and can keep your retainer from 4 years ago? Long story short... I started to go through with the divorce 4 years ago, retaining the lawyer and starting. I had to stop, but am ready to proceed. I sent an email...
Views: 182 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 7:02am
by Nonny
by Nonny
Scared stay at home mom
Hello, I'm a stay at home mom for many years. My husband has moved me around a lot for his job and now I am living somewhere that I know no one- on the other side of the country. I don't think our marriage has any hope. I think of divorce often and know its what I ha...
Views: 208 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 29, 2019 3:43pm
by Cindy
by Cindy
Help with getting started with divorce
I’m just lost. I don’t really have the funds to hire a lawyer. We own our home and still have one child at home. What do you recommend to first start? I printed out forms for a dissolution but have got 3/4 completed. I don’t know how to fill out cus...
Views: 225 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 29, 2019 9:10am
by Lara
by Lara
Finding peace and stability
I was told I need to have an attitude of ongoing forgiveness to have peace in my life dealing with a sociopath ex that I need to share my daughter with. I refuse to spend life angry and upset. But the anxiety of being attacked all the time from all angles is so hard....
Views: 239 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 27, 2019 10:06pm
by Joe
by Joe
Learning to heal and support my husband in beating this porn addiction
Update: my husband and I spoke a bit more productively. I expressed my feelings and stated that either he got help / we got help or I did not believe it was possible to overcome his addictive abuse of porn. To my knowledge we are talking about, Probably daily use, co...
Views: 216 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 27, 2019 4:46am
by Light
by Light
Divorced and now he is dating
Well, I have two kids and I take them on vacations always by myself since they were born. Their dad has never went with us nor did he really want to.
Since we divorced he told them he would take them on a trip. He has not but he tells me this person he met online,...
Views: 217 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 26, 2019 4:11pm
by Julie
by Julie
Won't move out.
My husband has taken the stance that he won't move out.
Recently, we went to court to establish a temporary divorce order. The order establishes child support based on a parenting plan and says he must move out by Oct 1.
Here is the thing he told me the same da...
Views: 159 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 26, 2019 9:27am
by Nonny
by Nonny
When deviant porn manifests itself in abusive behavior
I am 49 yrs old ,married 28 yrs, we have a daughter 10. I have known about his porn addiction for 20 yrs. when confronted he pledged to quit, change his behavior, went to a therapist, and I managed to heal myself. I felt betrayed , less than, not attractive enough, e...
Views: 222 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 24, 2019 9:17am
by Light
by Light
Not a bad man but..
My husband of 11 years is not a bad man but he has bi polar and I’m just plain exhausted. This morning he went crazy on me and it problem would have just blown over but this time he involved the kids. Saying that the were terrible basically and have no discipli...
Views: 274 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 24, 2019 2:07am
by Lo
by Lo
Feeling Angry
Is this place still operational? I don't mean that in a nasty way but I've never used a chat room before.
Views: 184 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 11:47am
by Watcher
by Watcher
Feeling Lost
My husband and I have been together for 21 years with the exception of a 4 year separation almost 10 years ago. The first separation was his choice, he found another woman.
About 6 weeks ago he decided he wanted to separate again. He has since been back and forth...
Views: 236 Replies: 5
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 11:14am
by Alexandra
by Alexandra
Annulment
Hi, I need some information on annulment. I recently got married by a local judge and everything went well. I am going to have the traditional Indian wedding ceremony a month later. Between my court marriage and ceremony we got into heated argument. Now he decided to...
Views: 195 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 10:51am
by Jenn
by Jenn
Don’t know where to turn to
Hi, this is really hard for me but I find I can’t talk to my friends about the real reasons behind my separation. I discovered that my husband had been stealing money from his family for the entire 10 years we’ve been together. It only came to light when...
Views: 194 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:23pm
by Lara
by Lara
I want a divorce, my husband is devastated
Hi last week I let my husband know that I want a divorce after 21 years. He is very hurt, angry and felt blindsided. He has been unhappy for the duration of our marriage. I felt trapped and obligated to stay. I’m 60 years old and scared about the future and how...
Views: 238 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:19pm
by Lara
by Lara
Lost
So my husband of 2 1\\2 yrs together 15 1/2 years has stated he wants to leave. Things haven't been great for awhile constant arguing and ignoring (ignoring on his part). We have 4 children together and he has a daughter as well. We have been together since highschoo...
Views: 160 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 8:17am
by Jen
by Jen
My life
Am desta am medical nurse and divorce women if u want my idea any answer am very happy am 33 years old men am from Ethiopia and if want my friend am very happy and am lucky the action or process of talking about something in order to reach a decision or to exchange m...
Views: 152 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:47am
by Desta
by Desta
Devastated and alone
Hi All,
My wife left me about 9 months ago and I have been distraught ever since. She Is the love of my life but I apparently wasn't hers. She Told me she did not love me anymore after a year and half of marriage. We had multiple discussions before hand about what...
Views: 236 Replies: 5
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:36pm
by Lara
by Lara
So lonely
Hey everyone. I am really having a horribly hard time with myself after my divorce. It has just been finalized, my husband left me last year in July for basically no reason, just walked out on me one day. I have been doing everything I can to handle it well, going ou...
Views: 198 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:31pm
by Lara
by Lara
Lost Loyalty
Hi Guys.. Ive been married for 7 years. When me n my husband reconnected he was at a low place. My love for him allowed me to share what i had & walk with him to get back on his feet including wiping away a huge amount of child support he owed me. As he began to accu...
Views: 177 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:26pm
by Lara
by Lara
Don't want a divorce
my husband voiced to me a month ago he wanted a divorce. he stopped wearing his wedding ring, moved into the guest room and i even had a coworker find him on Tinder (dating app) which he has since deleted after i confronted him.
he keeps saying he's confused and d...
Views: 218 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:09pm
by Lara
by Lara
Recently Separated and Feel Like I’m Dying
My husband of seven years sent me a text on Friday letting me know he had left me. He took most of his stuff and was gone before I got home. All weekend it was a back and forth about him coming back and doing therapy. Eventually this morning he told me over the phone...
Views: 292 Replies: 8
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 4:53pm
by Lara
by Lara
How much longer?
I have been divorced for just over a year but we separated 2 years ago. He still thinks he can ask what I'm doing, where I am, am I out. I tell him it's not his business. He recently found out I am seeing someone. I am trying to keep all the details very limited and...
Views: 176 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 1:33pm
by lillian ashlee
by lillian ashlee
Emotional divorce
My husband very suddenly wants a divorce. He completed shut me out for 4 weeks. Wouldn't look at me, speak to me or sleep next to me. When I finally confronted him, he acted as though I shouldn't be shock, sad, crying because this has been happening for the last 4 ye...
Views: 209 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 1:30pm
by lillian ashlee
by lillian ashlee
HOW I GOT MY WIFE BACK
I am very excited today for regaining my partner.All thanks to Dr Ataphan who cast a love spell on my wife that changed her mind and she came back to me. If you are having a divorce or marital issues with your wife or husband and you really love her or him,contact Dr...
Views: 201 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 19, 2019 10:13pm
by Bradley
by Bradley
Accurate Timeline Psychic to find love again!
Hi dear angels,
You are amazing women, I can just feel everyone’s energy here. I am a generational gypsy clairvoyant who has been a popular at many psychic fairs across Europe. I specialize in answering questions about ‘HIM’ and what he’s t...
Views: 133 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 19, 2019 12:16pm
by AccurateTimeline...
by AccurateTimeline...
Name change
I am having a dilemma about changing my name back after the divorce because I want to feel connected to my kids and grandson but I have bad feelings about my married name. I know this is a personal decision but just wanted to get some Feedback from the forum.
Views: 184 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 18, 2019 7:53am
by Lori K Mendel
by Lori K Mendel
What should I do first?
So I’ve been married for 16 years and have a 12 year old daughter. I can’t take it anymore. He is awful to me and we just don’t get along at all. I can’t live my life this way anymore. My daughter cried and begged me not to do this when I told...
Views: 198 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 1:52pm
by Hope
by Hope
Betrayed
I really don't know where to begin, I'll be 40 next month I've been with my soon to be ex husband for 17 years we've been married for 13 actually we just celebrated 8/1/2019 My husband has been battling alcoholism and I be dealt with infidelity on his behalf that res...
Views: 245 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 9:59am
by Hope
by Hope
Can my 10 year ex partner father of my 4 children take away my van that is under his name?
So me and my ex partner father of my 4 children separated and i have my van he gave to me but its under his name, can i win it over? And have a judge order him to sign it of to me?
I live in California
Views: 155 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 8:02am
by Hope
by Hope
Do you have a second thought about your divorce?
Hi! I know you are having situations that makes you not happy with your marriage anymore, but did you have a second thought about it? Do you want to have your children be broken inside just because he/she think that her parents don't love her anymore that's why you'r...
Views: 172 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 12, 2019 12:33pm
by Dom
by Dom
Am I being selfish
Long story short I’ve been married for 6 years. Earlier on in my marriage red flags started popping up, but I ignored them. Now we have 3 children (8m,4 & 8(from previous marriage). My husband has 2 children from a previous marriage and it’s been tugging...
Views: 183 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 11, 2019 5:20am
by Alice
by Alice
HELP!!!
I had my ex served on august 4th for a custody change and child support. we have been divorced for 4 years and it has been constant chaos with him. his girlfriend is a nurse practitioner and apparently keeps injectable medications and syringes in their home. my 13 ye...
Views: 170 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 9, 2019 7:13am
by Lindsey
by Lindsey
divorce done but stuck with lean on home?!
anybody expert in divorce law out there…I recently got divorce and my ex lawyer has a lean on our house, how do I get him to take the lean off??! In our divorce settlement I got the house & custody of the kids. The judge did not order the lawyer to take the lea...
Views: 156 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 8:42pm
by SJB
by SJB