Womans Divorce Forum
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Newlywed divorce
So a little background, I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 2. We got together when I was 17 and he was 28 and for a long time things were great, but now all of the small things are overwhelming me.
We never used to go out much, he would always compl...
Views: 166 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 10:53am
by Sally
by Sally
Feeling defeated
My ex is extremely vindictive. When we separated he was to move to MO and instead filed behind my back where the judge then ordered my son back. Even after showing proof he said I could leave and he would be moving there. That judge took my son from his mother and br...
Views: 195 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 7:15am
by Nonny
by Nonny
Florida Divorce
Hello,
Anyone know if a lawyer has to give you an answer and can keep your retainer from 4 years ago? Long story short... I started to go through with the divorce 4 years ago, retaining the lawyer and starting. I had to stop, but am ready to proceed. I sent an email...
Views: 154 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 30, 2019 7:02am
by Nonny
by Nonny
Scared stay at home mom
Hello, I'm a stay at home mom for many years. My husband has moved me around a lot for his job and now I am living somewhere that I know no one- on the other side of the country. I don't think our marriage has any hope. I think of divorce often and know its what I ha...
Views: 183 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 29, 2019 3:43pm
by Cindy
by Cindy
Help with getting started with divorce
I’m just lost. I don’t really have the funds to hire a lawyer. We own our home and still have one child at home. What do you recommend to first start? I printed out forms for a dissolution but have got 3/4 completed. I don’t know how to fill out cus...
Views: 202 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 29, 2019 9:10am
by Lara
by Lara
Finding peace and stability
I was told I need to have an attitude of ongoing forgiveness to have peace in my life dealing with a sociopath ex that I need to share my daughter with. I refuse to spend life angry and upset. But the anxiety of being attacked all the time from all angles is so hard....
Views: 210 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 27, 2019 10:06pm
by Joe
by Joe
Learning to heal and support my husband in beating this porn addiction
Update: my husband and I spoke a bit more productively. I expressed my feelings and stated that either he got help / we got help or I did not believe it was possible to overcome his addictive abuse of porn. To my knowledge we are talking about, Probably daily use, co...
Views: 194 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 27, 2019 4:46am
by Light
by Light
Divorced and now he is dating
Well, I have two kids and I take them on vacations always by myself since they were born. Their dad has never went with us nor did he really want to.
Since we divorced he told them he would take them on a trip. He has not but he tells me this person he met online,...
Views: 182 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 26, 2019 4:11pm
by Julie
by Julie
Won't move out.
My husband has taken the stance that he won't move out.
Recently, we went to court to establish a temporary divorce order. The order establishes child support based on a parenting plan and says he must move out by Oct 1.
Here is the thing he told me the same da...
Views: 129 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 26, 2019 9:27am
by Nonny
by Nonny
When deviant porn manifests itself in abusive behavior
I am 49 yrs old ,married 28 yrs, we have a daughter 10. I have known about his porn addiction for 20 yrs. when confronted he pledged to quit, change his behavior, went to a therapist, and I managed to heal myself. I felt betrayed , less than, not attractive enough, e...
Views: 197 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 24, 2019 9:17am
by Light
by Light
Not a bad man but..
My husband of 11 years is not a bad man but he has bi polar and I’m just plain exhausted. This morning he went crazy on me and it problem would have just blown over but this time he involved the kids. Saying that the were terrible basically and have no discipli...
Views: 242 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 24, 2019 2:07am
by Lo
by Lo
Feeling Angry
Is this place still operational? I don't mean that in a nasty way but I've never used a chat room before.
Views: 161 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 11:47am
by Watcher
by Watcher
Feeling Lost
My husband and I have been together for 21 years with the exception of a 4 year separation almost 10 years ago. The first separation was his choice, he found another woman.
About 6 weeks ago he decided he wanted to separate again. He has since been back and forth...
Views: 206 Replies: 5
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 11:14am
by Alexandra
by Alexandra
Annulment
Hi, I need some information on annulment. I recently got married by a local judge and everything went well. I am going to have the traditional Indian wedding ceremony a month later. Between my court marriage and ceremony we got into heated argument. Now he decided to...
Views: 165 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 23, 2019 10:51am
by Jenn
by Jenn
Don’t know where to turn to
Hi, this is really hard for me but I find I can’t talk to my friends about the real reasons behind my separation. I discovered that my husband had been stealing money from his family for the entire 10 years we’ve been together. It only came to light when...
Views: 171 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:23pm
by Lara
by Lara
I want a divorce, my husband is devastated
Hi last week I let my husband know that I want a divorce after 21 years. He is very hurt, angry and felt blindsided. He has been unhappy for the duration of our marriage. I felt trapped and obligated to stay. I’m 60 years old and scared about the future and how...
Views: 212 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:19pm
by Lara
by Lara
Lost
So my husband of 2 1\\2 yrs together 15 1/2 years has stated he wants to leave. Things haven't been great for awhile constant arguing and ignoring (ignoring on his part). We have 4 children together and he has a daughter as well. We have been together since highschoo...
Views: 138 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 8:17am
by Jen
by Jen
My life
Am desta am medical nurse and divorce women if u want my idea any answer am very happy am 33 years old men am from Ethiopia and if want my friend am very happy and am lucky the action or process of talking about something in order to reach a decision or to exchange m...
Views: 126 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 21, 2019 4:47am
by Desta
by Desta
Devastated and alone
Hi All,
My wife left me about 9 months ago and I have been distraught ever since. She Is the love of my life but I apparently wasn't hers. She Told me she did not love me anymore after a year and half of marriage. We had multiple discussions before hand about what...
Views: 213 Replies: 5
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:36pm
by Lara
by Lara
So lonely
Hey everyone. I am really having a horribly hard time with myself after my divorce. It has just been finalized, my husband left me last year in July for basically no reason, just walked out on me one day. I have been doing everything I can to handle it well, going ou...
Views: 167 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:31pm
by Lara
by Lara
Lost Loyalty
Hi Guys.. Ive been married for 7 years. When me n my husband reconnected he was at a low place. My love for him allowed me to share what i had & walk with him to get back on his feet including wiping away a huge amount of child support he owed me. As he began to accu...
Views: 153 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:26pm
by Lara
by Lara
Don't want a divorce
my husband voiced to me a month ago he wanted a divorce. he stopped wearing his wedding ring, moved into the guest room and i even had a coworker find him on Tinder (dating app) which he has since deleted after i confronted him.
he keeps saying he's confused and d...
Views: 186 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 5:09pm
by Lara
by Lara
Recently Separated and Feel Like I’m Dying
My husband of seven years sent me a text on Friday letting me know he had left me. He took most of his stuff and was gone before I got home. All weekend it was a back and forth about him coming back and doing therapy. Eventually this morning he told me over the phone...
Views: 269 Replies: 8
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 4:53pm
by Lara
by Lara
How much longer?
I have been divorced for just over a year but we separated 2 years ago. He still thinks he can ask what I'm doing, where I am, am I out. I tell him it's not his business. He recently found out I am seeing someone. I am trying to keep all the details very limited and...
Views: 153 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 1:33pm
by lillian ashlee
by lillian ashlee
Emotional divorce
My husband very suddenly wants a divorce. He completed shut me out for 4 weeks. Wouldn't look at me, speak to me or sleep next to me. When I finally confronted him, he acted as though I shouldn't be shock, sad, crying because this has been happening for the last 4 ye...
Views: 192 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 20, 2019 1:30pm
by lillian ashlee
by lillian ashlee
HOW I GOT MY WIFE BACK
I am very excited today for regaining my partner.All thanks to Dr Ataphan who cast a love spell on my wife that changed her mind and she came back to me. If you are having a divorce or marital issues with your wife or husband and you really love her or him,contact Dr...
Views: 177 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 19, 2019 10:13pm
by Bradley
by Bradley
Accurate Timeline Psychic to find love again!
Hi dear angels,
You are amazing women, I can just feel everyone’s energy here. I am a generational gypsy clairvoyant who has been a popular at many psychic fairs across Europe. I specialize in answering questions about ‘HIM’ and what he’s t...
Views: 110 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 19, 2019 12:16pm
by AccurateTimeline...
by AccurateTimeline...
Name change
I am having a dilemma about changing my name back after the divorce because I want to feel connected to my kids and grandson but I have bad feelings about my married name. I know this is a personal decision but just wanted to get some Feedback from the forum.
Views: 158 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 18, 2019 7:53am
by Lori K Mendel
by Lori K Mendel
What should I do first?
So I’ve been married for 16 years and have a 12 year old daughter. I can’t take it anymore. He is awful to me and we just don’t get along at all. I can’t live my life this way anymore. My daughter cried and begged me not to do this when I told...
Views: 174 Replies: 3
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 1:52pm
by Hope
by Hope
Betrayed
I really don't know where to begin, I'll be 40 next month I've been with my soon to be ex husband for 17 years we've been married for 13 actually we just celebrated 8/1/2019 My husband has been battling alcoholism and I be dealt with infidelity on his behalf that res...
Views: 224 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 9:59am
by Hope
by Hope
Can my 10 year ex partner father of my 4 children take away my van that is under his name?
So me and my ex partner father of my 4 children separated and i have my van he gave to me but its under his name, can i win it over? And have a judge order him to sign it of to me?
I live in California
Views: 126 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 16, 2019 8:02am
by Hope
by Hope
Do you have a second thought about your divorce?
Hi! I know you are having situations that makes you not happy with your marriage anymore, but did you have a second thought about it? Do you want to have your children be broken inside just because he/she think that her parents don't love her anymore that's why you'r...
Views: 152 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 12, 2019 12:33pm
by Dom
by Dom
Am I being selfish
Long story short I’ve been married for 6 years. Earlier on in my marriage red flags started popping up, but I ignored them. Now we have 3 children (8m,4 & 8(from previous marriage). My husband has 2 children from a previous marriage and it’s been tugging...
Views: 154 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 11, 2019 5:20am
by Alice
by Alice
HELP!!!
I had my ex served on august 4th for a custody change and child support. we have been divorced for 4 years and it has been constant chaos with him. his girlfriend is a nurse practitioner and apparently keeps injectable medications and syringes in their home. my 13 ye...
Views: 143 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 9, 2019 7:13am
by Lindsey
by Lindsey
divorce done but stuck with lean on home?!
anybody expert in divorce law out there…I recently got divorce and my ex lawyer has a lean on our house, how do I get him to take the lean off??! In our divorce settlement I got the house & custody of the kids. The judge did not order the lawyer to take the lea...
Views: 127 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 8:42pm
by SJB
by SJB
Just got my husband to the USA
I'm starting to feel like nothing I do is good enough..cooking it's all about him. He just got his permanent resident card in mail..I feel like he used me for Visa. I don't know what to do..I don't want to be financially responsible for him for the next ten years..do...
Views: 112 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 4:56pm
by Shelly
by Shelly
Loveless marriage, dying to end it!
We are 23 years different in ages. I married to him without love. We have three kids, now 13,12,9. He is not a bad person, loves his kids. cares about me, doesn't cheat or physically abuse me. He is just a depressed, passive person, careless about his living space an...
Views: 210 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 11:31am
by Whereisthelove
by Whereisthelove
First divorce hearing
I have my first hearing tomorrow and I have no idea what to expect. I moved out about 6 months ago and my husband is way behind on our mortgage even though he is still living is the house. Not sure what even will happen tomorrow.
What happens in these hearings?
Views: 188 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 10:36am
by lillian ashlee
by lillian ashlee
Married or divorce
My husband and I had filed for divorce and seen the judge in May. I received an email from my attorneys assistant stating that my husband never signed the final divorce decree so, they issued a hearing for a force to finalize. My husband and I had gotten back togethe...
Views: 142 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 2:32am
by Shelley
by Shelley
I REALLLY need advice. Ex hurting/name calling my daughter
I really need some advice from someone who won't judge me and who has been through this or knows someone who has.
I got divorced almost 5 years ago. I have two girls with him (8 and 12). I am remarried to a wonderful man and he has a girlfriend that I really like....
Views: 143 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 8, 2019 1:29am
by Meme
by Meme
American citizen takes kids of wife on green card
I am a retired neighbor trying to help a 38 year old Columbian women in the Dominican Republic.
Her husband and her moved to the DR about a year ago. They have 2 kids. He let her green card/visa retire while in the DR. Then he took the kids and left her here.
H...
Views: 86 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 7, 2019 9:13pm
by Charles
by Charles
My married boyfriend.
I’ve had this boyfriend for about 3 years now.. he’s married and he has a daughter. His daughter means the world to him, which is why he has been saving up money for the college tuition and for her to live comfortably in the future. She is only 9 years ol...
Views: 191 Replies: 5
Last Post: Sep 7, 2019 5:32am
by Meme
by Meme
Inheritance
We bought our house two years ago with money my husband inherited. He now claims he gets the house and I get nothing because it was his money. The money was in a joint account.
Views: 123 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 5, 2019 6:03pm
by Sisterchick
by Sisterchick
Stay at home mom
I want a divorce. We have relocated he’s cheated there and now here. But I have no income. I have two children 17 and 14 and I don’t have education. Do I file for divorce in same county as married in and can I move them there. Same state but a distance aw...
Views: 95 Replies: 0
Last Post: Sep 2, 2019 3:49pm
by Amberly
by Amberly
Please Think About It Before You Make That Decision
My husband and I have been married for 10 years. These last 2 years have been hell. All we did was fuss and fight and it became a problem for the kids. I never thought about divorce because of my own parents divorce and I didn't want my kids to go through what my sis...
Views: 270 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 2, 2019 3:43am
by Noelle
by Noelle
Hurt that some of my cousins and nieces or nephews are still Facebook friends with him
I’m so annoyed with everything going on. I thought that it could be easier that we were ending our marriage and getting a divorce. I hate having days when I search his Facebook profile to check if he has posted anything about me. I’m confused and hurt whe...
Views: 153 Replies: 2
Last Post: Sep 1, 2019 6:12am
by Suem
by Suem
Can dad handle time alone with kids?
Hi All,
Looking for any similar stories and advice. I am still married and my husband has a temper, insomnia and I think a problem with alcohol. He is never physically abusovr but he yells, spends most days sleeping to make up for sleepless nights and doesn’...
Views: 96 Replies: 0
Last Post: Aug 31, 2019 7:53am
by Pandora
by Pandora
Divorced but still living in same house
Husband divorced me after 20 yrs.3 months ago. Verbal, mental, emotional abuse, gaslighting for last 2 yrs. I'm enraged & hate the sight of him. Married him after my 1st husband of 5 years died. He was my husband's "good friend". I wanted a baby (he didn't do it). I...
Views: 167 Replies: 0
Last Post: Aug 30, 2019 12:46pm
by P.
by P.