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carol

Saving marriage ???

My councelor said to not contact my husband for 2 weeks and try and get a job give him time to miss me. We have been separated for 5 months. Any thoughts? Has anyone tried this? Its so hard and I am hurt does anyone have any suggestions?

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Last Post: Aug 5, 2019 9:12pm
by Curt

Samantha Weller

average cost of divorce

Hi girls. I was looking for about average cost of divorce and found this article. I'm wondering, is it all true? 'cause looks like there's several ways for divorce. can somebody help me? thanks a lot! https://averagecostofdivorce.com/what-is-the-average-cost-of-di...

Views: 307 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 5, 2019 2:21am
by Debra C. Banks

Donna McGoff

Re: Life After Gray Divorce

A gray divorce is when older couples who have been married for a long period of time decide to end their marriage. Would anyone like to share what challenges or problems she is facing after having gone through a gray divorce?

Views: 373 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 3, 2019 9:12pm
by Donna

APearl

International Divorce

Hi, Anyone have any experience in a divorce with two continents involved? It seems so big and scary to restart my life, go back to my "home country", and I'm feeling really overwhelmed by it. How do I break this down step by step and face it? I'm hurt and upset...

Views: 135 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 3, 2019 3:33pm
by Kelly hutchison

SouthernDesiGal

Why did I waste two years of my life

I’m hurt by the way that I was abused by my husband. He denies everything and instead says that I abused him. I never even abused him. I always loved him and respected him. I always treated him right. I always respected his family and parents. He is the one tha...

Views: 186 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 3, 2019 12:47pm
by APearl

Min

Do you agree that this is cheating and how can I make myself divorce my husband?

I've been married for almost 30 yrs now and I'm still very much in love with my husband but years ago I was looking through our browser history and saw that he had signed up on one of those cheating websites and it about killed me. He denied it like an idiot but fina...

Views: 265 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 2, 2019 10:11pm
by Bobby5000

Susan

Sad that lawyer I chose fell through

After months of interviewing lawyers, I finally decided on one Last week, only to realize yesterday my choice was not a Match after all. My energy level is low and I have to psych myself to resume The process tomorrow. None of my current friends can relate to w...

Views: 149 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 2, 2019 10:07pm
by Bobby5000

Jenn

Feeling overwhelmed

My husband told me over a text that he wasn’t happy in our marriage of 25 years. A week later he sends me another text saying he wants something different for a while. 😐I told him he could have something different, it’s called a divorce. I’m feel...

Views: 251 Replies: 5

Last Post: Jul 30, 2019 7:01pm
by Candace

Cinnamon50

Regretting the Night

It is almost 9:00 pm and I am know that I am not going to get much sleep tonight. Sadly, I barely slept last night and the night before. Two or three days ago, my husband decided that he would no longer share a bedroom with me. His decisions are often made without ha...

Views: 178 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 29, 2019 9:26pm
by Cinnamon50

Headspin

What to do, what is the intent

I am so confused and need some advice here and I think it needs to start with the back story, here we go. Last June my wife of 16 years told me she needed space. We had been together for a total of 20 years, we had 3 kids together and she was a stay at home mom fo...

Views: 179 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 29, 2019 4:09pm
by Nut_meg

Mahmoud Touahri

I am searching about divorce women

I am 17 years old live in Algeria I studying in 3 grade high school I am ready to married with Europe women

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Last Post: Jul 29, 2019 2:33am
by Mahmoud Touahri

Myra

Husband messaging child

I just left my husband who is very controlling. I blocked him on all social media and texting and now he's messaging our teen daughter asking where we are staying etc. How do I handle this?

Views: 138 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 27, 2019 7:53pm
by Myra

Emma

Mutual agreement to separate but complex situation

Hello My husband and I have been married 8 years and have a 2 year old. We have been unhappy since the day we got married honestly. I think we both played a role in the breakdown or our relationship however I do believe his lack of affection and emotion was the ulti...

Views: 185 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 27, 2019 6:51pm
by Emma

Kelly

Medical expenses

I am responsible for paying 36% of my daughters out of pocket medical expenses. My ex carries the plan. My daughter broke her arm and ex informs me he has a $7000 deductible which has been met and wants my 36%. There are 3 people covered on his plan. Should I have to...

Views: 154 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 26, 2019 9:03pm
by Holley

Kristin

Left pregnant with planned third child for a 24 year old co-worker

Backstory: My husband and I have been married for 7 years. We met and lived in Arizona for 6 of those years when last June we were transferred to Kansas for his job (he is a Vice President at a big national construction company). We have 2 children-a 6 year old daug...

Views: 192 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 25, 2019 4:32am
by MelRose

Sofia

Tired but scared

Hi there. I’ve been married for 8 years and have a 6 year old daughter. I’m so tired of being in an unhappy marriage but I’m terrified of losing my little girl half the time. My husband is a high anxiety alcoholic. He can’t seem to deal with e...

Views: 175 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 22, 2019 9:55pm
by Yvette

Danielle

Getting divorce without a lawyer

Hey, I have a difficult situation. I am trying to do the process without a lawyer. Also because I have abusing issues I'll need someone to serve him. Thanks in advance! Hope I'll be able to get some help around here ....

Views: 211 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 22, 2019 9:32pm
by Yvette

Kimberly Alaniz

Divorce but still together

My husband is going to get a divorce Monday but we are still living together to see if things workout and if they do he says we will get re married later since we got married so quickly we were only dating for about 6 or 7 months

Views: 186 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 22, 2019 11:35am
by Peggy

Sharon

28 and looking for support on going through with a separation

Hello. I’m 28 years old and have been with my husband for 9 years, almost 3 years married. We have an 11 month old daughter and own a home. This is a very difficult situation and all my family can say is I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I ca...

Views: 201 Replies: 4

Last Post: Jul 21, 2019 9:04pm
by Sofia

sarah

helped me

This helped me though a painful divorce

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Last Post: Jul 20, 2019 4:29pm
by sarah

Melody

My husband left me for his colleague

My husband left me for his colleague 2 months ago They moved in together 3 weeks ago and on top of feeling betrayed I feel it is going so fast! It s as if it was so horrible to be with me that he ran away as fast as possible On top of everything the colleague was a...

Views: 182 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 19, 2019 1:44pm
by Melody

Sticky out of state situation

What should i do

So i wanted to explain the back story before i ask my question. My ex and i are going through a divorce, we have a hearing to finalize our divorce on aug 1st and our mediation papers are turned in. My ex and i discussed that our son will go with him to seattle from j...

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Last Post: Jul 19, 2019 12:25am
by Sticky out of st...

SouthernDesiGal

I'm confused and hurt. I just don't know why I married this guy and almos

My husband of two years emailed me on Father's Day and asked me for a divorce in the email and also told me that I would here from either him or his divorce lawyer and I should just sign the divorce papers so we can go our separate ways. I'm in shock because the only...

Views: 220 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 7:24pm
by JH

Maya

Visitation w/o court order

Still married. ex moved across the country. daughter has spent 3 weeks total with him over the last 4 years. she is 7. He wants her to fly alone w/chaperone across country but wont give me any details as to who will be watching her on her vacation or any emergency nu...

Views: 143 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 7:09pm
by Brandi

Brandi

Trying to get over the past and coping with a recent divorce

I recently got divorced in April 2019. I have two young daughters and their father stopped being a part of our lives in January. I have sole custody of my kids and was hoping that when the divorce was finalized that my now ex husband would change and mature and begin...

Views: 162 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 7:05pm
by Brandi

Nichole

Spousal Support

Will a judge order spousal support to wife if husband is unemployed and wife can not work due to illness. Husband has a lot of money from inheritance. Will that be considered when determining whether or not to award spousal support to a wife?

Views: 231 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 7:00pm
by Brandi

Rox

He won't let us heal

hi.Im 17 years old and for the past 7 years, I've had to visit my father from time to time. He is obligating us to be around his new family that harmed my sister and me a lot in the past. I tried getting close to him but he keeps forcing us to be with his other famil...

Views: 163 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 6:58pm
by Brandi

Brittany

Sudden Divorce

My wife and I are getting a divorce after being together for 11 years. We went to the courthouse to file the divorce papers yesterday, July 3rd. This divorce so far has been a roller coast ride. I found out that she cheated on me 2 years ago with a guy named Joey. He...

Views: 175 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 18, 2019 3:55am
by SouthernDesiGal

Diane

Can the non-custodial parent demand we switch our monitor even though we are happy with their servic

My ex has been court-ordered supervised visitation. In the five months since the order he has had for visits. He asked for a summary after the third. He did not like the summary because it highlighted him violating the order by bringing his family who has always been...

Views: 121 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 17, 2019 4:36pm
by Diane

Priscilla

Husband cheated

My husband left me for a 21 year old the next day I got diagnosed with cancer and that week was our wedding anniversary I have spoke with him a few times since he left met with him two times and he tells me he loves and misses me he has kissed me and held me then he...

Views: 245 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 12, 2019 10:59pm
by Priscilla

Karen Fourie

40+ and divorced...

I thought I had everything. After years of struggling financially and having the in-laws on my case, I thought I got the breakthrough and that things would get better from there. It did not last very long... 3 years and all hell broke loose. It was so bad, I actua...

Views: 238 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 12, 2019 6:42am
by Karen Fourie

Anonymous

Marriage

Where do I even begin. I guess I really don’t care if anyone sees this because all I want is to vent it out since I really have no one to do that to , I mean I guess I do but in reality who wants to share that their marriage is failing. I often think it was a m...

Views: 280 Replies: 4

Last Post: Jul 12, 2019 6:31am
by Karen Fourie

Enough

Time to move on?

my husband and I have been married for 23 years, together 25. we have 2 teenage boys. we met senior year when we worked together. We dated about 6 months before he left for the military. He asked me to wait for him before he left and I agreed. He was gone for 2 years...

Views: 223 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 12, 2019 6:26am
by Karen Fourie

Carol

Anyone else have this experience?

I’m 70 yrs old and my husband is 68. He retired about 5 years ago and my life has sucked since then. He has copd and gained about 200 lbs. he is about the laziest person that I have ever known. He never picks up after himself and could probably be a hoarder wit...

Views: 214 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 9, 2019 8:58pm
by Carol

Liz

Divorce is finalized and I feel sad, not happy.

I went through a long and ugly divorce. Now it is finally over. Everyday my thoughts wander to our failed marriage, his new fiancé that he may have cheated with, and why I feel sad rather than glad it is over. I don't have friends to talk to about this, since he...

Views: 220 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 9, 2019 1:44pm
by Steph

Marie

Moving on : letting go of the anger

I got divorced about two years ago now. My ex husband was verbally/emotionally abusive and ended an 8+ year relationship by cheating on me with two different women. He recently got engaged to the second woman. I live in a city where everyone knows everyone somehow...

Views: 219 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 8, 2019 11:22pm
by Karen Fourie

Mindy

How to tell him

I know I'm going to be asking for a divorce. I have been dealing with abuse more sexually. I haven't told him yet we have been separated for two months. I can't even look at him the same. He likes to speak for me. Our two month trail seperation ends tomorrow that we...

Views: 201 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 8, 2019 6:48pm
by Mindy

CblueX

Dating married man, his wife is divorce lawyer

My bf is in his late 40s and I am in my early 20s, unfortunately he is married but separated and claims he and his wife will divorce once their children mature a bit. He disclosed to me that his wife IS actually a divorce lawyer and needs to get his finances in order...

Views: 232 Replies: 7

Last Post: Jul 7, 2019 2:16pm
by Priscilla

Considering Divorce

My husband was an alcoholic... He went to rehab, drank, went back to rehab and drank again. He's been sober for a while. He relapsed because he got kicked out for not having a job but I was working and paid the bills. -- we were living with my mom at the time. His mo...

Views: 236 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 7, 2019 2:12pm
by Priscilla

Misty

What Should I Do 1st? Calif. Narcissist Abusive Husband With Money

Please apply California Marriage Law when replying and advising. Thank You so very much for caring. I am so glad I found this forum but I honestly dont know where to start. So if this post seems a bit scattered it's likely because I'm scattered. First my questi...

Views: 192 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 6, 2019 2:15pm
by Bobby5000

Katelin

Looking For Advice - Adult Child of Recently Divorced Parents

Hi everyone. My parents split up after being together 22 years, about 2 years ago now. I'm 21, I have a 19 year old brother and a 14 year old sister. It wasn't a huge surprise, their marriage had always been fairly unhealthy, but the circumstances under which it e...

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Last Post: Jul 6, 2019 2:12pm
by Bobby5000

Mokunfope Brymond

Solutions on divorce cases

Hey Guys, this is Brymond Preparing the solutions on divorce cases, at first it was almost impossible for us to over come divorce but there are ways and step by step tutorial from Candid Mommy. I've watched hundreds of videos online, but nothing beats this simple,...

Views: 127 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 6, 2019 8:14am
by Mokunfope Brymon...

Amie

Husband want a divorce

Been married for 17 years and I have 3 kids. My husband out of the blue wants a divorce because he feels the need to be single and free. I just shock, lost, depressed all the above. I don’t work i moved away from my family so he could advance his career, so I q...

Views: 287 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 5, 2019 5:30am
by Harrison

Nicole

How to deal with ex-husband's new fiancee and co-parenting

I've been officially divorced for 10 months, both my ex-husband and I have new partners and we share custody of our 2 children. His new girlfriend proposed to him right after our divorce was finalized. She is an old friend/acquaintance I knew from high school. At fir...

Views: 190 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 4, 2019 7:30am
by Liz

Nicole

Divorce?

I’m 24 years old and have been married only 2 years. My guy and I were high school sweethearts. We have a child together she’s 3. As much as I want to make it work I’m tired of trying. He gets mad at me for everything. Has no respect for me. And I&#...

Views: 331 Replies: 7

Last Post: Jul 4, 2019 7:03am
by Liz

Need2escape

Help ..he says he is moving back into house

Told husbsnd to leave back in December. He was hospitalized , then stayed away lived elsewhere but ran out of places to stay. Showed up at house saying he has the legal right to be here. I had been to attorney but have not filed anything as yet because I was trying t...

Views: 159 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 3, 2019 9:10pm
by Need2escape

Juliet

PTSD & custody, guilt divorcing the mentally ill - help

My husband of 14 years sent me a text last Sunday to say that he wants a “time out” from our marriage. He has accepted a job that requires 8 months of training out of state (without consulting me), wants to separate our finances, and would like the option...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 3, 2019 7:04pm
by Need2escape

Brittany

Leaving with child

My husband & I have been together 7 years, married 3 on August 1st. We have a daughter who will be 4 years old at the end of August. He's going on 40 years old, I'm going on 25 years old. I know, weird. Wasn't so weird when I was younger & we got together when I was...

Views: 134 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 1, 2019 12:15pm
by Brittany

Karman costlow

Divorce

I lost my 3 kids in my divorce lost everything nothing goes right my ex husband only lets me see my kids every other sunday for one hour it hurts to say bye to my children it feels like no matter how hard i try its not getting any better I sleep on couch after couch...

Views: 157 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 1, 2019 5:07am
by Karman costlow

Linda B

Tired of the emotional roller coaster

On 03/28/2019, after asking my husband of 4 years for a divorce, he decided to get drunk and pull a gun on my 13 year old boy. He was an alcoholic and at 40 years old just couldn't seem to get his **** together. I've spent the last year going back and forth from want...

Views: 297 Replies: 6

Last Post: Jun 28, 2019 4:17am
by Lara