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Peacemaker

Where did you live?

I am in my 30s and have an 8 year old and 6 year old boys. I am not officially divorced but unfortunately soon will be. My question are to the women who decided to leave the marital home and live elsewhere. Where did you end up living? Condo, apartment, townhome? Im...

Views: 151 Replies: 1

Last Post: May 6, 2019 2:23am
by Dana

Confused

Taken advantage of

So, my ex and I got into an argument about things that were on his phone. He grabbed his stuff, and left. That was in 2017. He said that he was coming back but needed a break. He moved in with a friend. He would have our child over. One day my child tells me that dad...

Views: 219 Replies: 3

Last Post: May 6, 2019 2:09am
by Dana

Dana

Feeling invisible

I feel confused about what I’m supposed to be doing. I’m used to being a wife and mother as my son is going to college and I feel alone. I have to focus on getting engaged in the things that I put aside to focus on my family lbut most times I’m emot...

Views: 175 Replies: 0

Last Post: May 6, 2019 2:04am
by Dana

Jenn

My husband took my engagement ring

My husband and I haven't been getting a long a long time time. A few months ago we were coming home from dinner and we were getting out of the car to go I side the house and a girl pulled up in front of that house saying they have been together for a long time. Of co...

Views: 141 Replies: 0

Last Post: May 5, 2019 7:58am
by Jenn

alynn

holy relapse in emotion

So I've gotten lots of new useless info these past few days from how his lawyer is playing games all the way to how supportive he is helping his girlfriend with a booth she has at a big fair we have every year in MA and how he is talking about building a home for the...

Views: 146 Replies: 19

Last Post: May 1, 2019 10:44pm
by Rebecca

Keith

Infidelity and Money

I am divorcing from a very toxic marriage of 21 years. My wife had an affair with an ex boyfriend who’s married with young children. She came home everyday as this all happened for a several years during work hours and long lunches. This is the kind of thing th...

Views: 239 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 30, 2019 4:24pm
by Overit89

Sandra Nadege

quick emotional return

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Views: 140 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 30, 2019 4:10am
by Sandra Nadege

Cheryl

Divorce

I am in a marriage of 40 years and my husband has been unhappy with me for a very long time but stayed together because of kids which are now grown. It's been a very long time since we have been happy. In 2005 I told him then was the time to walk away since his comm...

Views: 128 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 29, 2019 10:40pm
by Cheryl

Lila

Do you ever feel...

Do you ever feel judged for being divorced? Have you ever regretted going through with the divorce? Do you ever feel that who you were in your married life is a completely different person than who you are now? Do you ever feel completely lost and scared of the fu...

Views: 281 Replies: 7

Last Post: Apr 29, 2019 1:12pm
by Joy

Hudson

Changing Mindset

I will try to make this as short as possible. Been together almost 11 years, married 2015. C left to train for a job at the end of October 2016 and would be gone for months returning home full time March 1st 2017. On April 23rd 2017 he leaned over to kiss me and I st...

Views: 210 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 29, 2019 4:14am
by Lara

Michele Langholz

Crushed...Shock and Awe Bomb

hi there, i am brand new and reached out to this site today after having repeated panic attacks over the last 24 hours since my husband dropped the "i want a divorce" bomb. it is hard to know where to begin, as i think little things have slowly and quietly chipped aw...

Views: 361 Replies: 6

Last Post: Apr 29, 2019 4:09am
by Lara

Lori Renee Perkins-lawrence

Death of ex

I can explain extinuing circumstances. All his mail ss office and banks statements come to my home where he lived. Will you please do some research that would entitled me.

Views: 138 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 29, 2019 3:58am
by Lara

Leah

How do you find the strength to walk away!

I want and need help getting out of this horrible marriage. I don’t know how to walk away from him. We have four kids together and I just can’t take it anymore. I need advice. HELP!!!

Views: 297 Replies: 7

Last Post: Apr 28, 2019 6:18pm
by Myk

Chrissy

How do I find strength to leave?

12 years married, 2 beautiful kids (10 & 5)... he’s unemployed every other year. No intimacy. Sleep in separate bedrooms for 6 months. I do t wear the engagement ring... Living off of my salary, his unemployment and my inheritance.

Views: 350 Replies: 9

Last Post: Apr 28, 2019 4:36pm
by Myk

Helenna

not ok

my divorce was final over a year ago and I cant seem to move past it. I feel stuck and unable to move on.

Views: 206 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 27, 2019 1:56pm
by Betterbutnot

Lynda

Helping my adult son financially while his dad (my ex) spends and spends on himself

I have actually been divorced for about 10 years and am remarried. I have an issue I don’t know how to handle. My son lost his job and is going back to school for 6 months to attend a coding boot camp. My ex husband has always been incredibly selfish with money...

Views: 134 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 27, 2019 7:01am
by Lynda

Mary

Still on the mortgage after divorce

My ex-husband kept our house after our divorce and was supposed to take me off of the mortgage. He was given two years to do so. He has since filed bankruptcy and because he did not remove my name before doing so my credit is now affected. The mortgage is up to date...

Views: 130 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 25, 2019 5:05pm
by GrayDivorcee

Das

Name still on mortgage after 6 years

My ex and I divorced in 2012. We had bought a house together in 2007. Both had put down 10% of the downpamwnt amounting to 40000 each. At the time if divorce he had me sign away the house to his name alone. I was so emotionally distraught that I didn't even get a cop...

Views: 145 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 25, 2019 4:37pm
by GrayDivorcee

Lori Renee Perkins-lawrence

Death of ex

I can explain extinuing circumstances.

Views: 97 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 25, 2019 3:44pm
by Lori Renee Perki...

Janet

Ex and getting married

I got a divorce 6 mouth ago. And now my ex married the other woman. I divorce home because I was never good enough for him. That is what he said. He has sleep around on me for years. The sad thing is we were married for 27 years. He turned on me when are kids were gr...

Views: 174 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 23, 2019 7:17pm
by Destiny

Residential custody

My ex uses my kids to hurt me. It's been almost 4 years since the divorce and he is still doing this. I have been considering giving up residential custody to make it easier for them. Has anyone had this issue?

Views: 135 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 21, 2019 3:07pm
by M

Lori

How do I rebuild?

Hi, My husband announced to January 4th that he was leaving me for another woman. He moved out March 8th. He was dating her every weekend since December 1st but was using an excuse that I would support (bible study with new believers). I never saw this coming. I th...

Views: 190 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 20, 2019 11:56pm
by Lori

Betterbutnot

How do you manage meetings with your soon to be ex?

Ok, so this week I will have my first meeting with my spouse and the two attorneys. Has anyone developed ways to deal with the stress? To keep from freaking out or responding to triggers? Do you remain silent and let your attorney say everything?

Views: 187 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 17, 2019 9:46am
by Betterbutnot

Brown eyes

What to do with ring / jewelry

I don’t know what to do with my rings. I’m thinking about pawning them to help pay off my lawyer fees. He asked for the divorce and it was finalized in December so there’s no reason to keep the ring because the sentimentally means nothing to me any...

Views: 208 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 17, 2019 4:12am
by Keith

Cathy

401k divorce, did I make a mist6

Did I make a mistake? I left my husband almost a year ago to move from cali to Ny. I started filing for divorce in September and to avoid him getting my 401k I withdrew it all that December. I took a big tax and penalty hit on it. He still has not signed any divorce...

Views: 273 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 17, 2019 3:58am
by Keith

Janet

Deceived

I'm in the process of a divorce with my husband of 27 years. I recently found out that back in August, before he dropped the bomb that I never saw coming that he wanted out of our marriage, that he removed $5000 from his 401k to attend a real estate investor seminar...

Views: 340 Replies: 8

Last Post: Apr 16, 2019 9:01pm
by Janet

Sarah

A stay at home mom need advice

I've been a stay at home mom for 7 years. We have 2 kids. I had no job, I can't drive so I don't have a license but do have a permit my husband never let me use. We live in Kentucky but I want to move to Texas to be with my family but he tells me I can't do it becaus...

Views: 241 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 16, 2019 5:54pm
by Lara

Betterbutnot

only 7 days out since he left

I'm guessing that what I'm feeling is pretty common--overwhelmed, frightened but somewhat grateful. He announced he was leaving on a Friday at 4:30 pm--no time for me to engage a lawyer before Monday; he tried to get me to validate the separation and told me that...

Views: 198 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 14, 2019 3:55pm
by Betterbutnot

Veronica

Quick claim deed

I just found out that my soon to be ex husband did a quick claim deed on a house owned by his mother. The house was bought and is under his mother’s name. His mother did a quick claim deed in my husbands name. Do I have access to the equity on the home. My name...

Views: 152 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 13, 2019 4:28pm
by Veronica

Snow red

Fiance's ex-wife

Has anyone dealt with being engaged and your fiance realizing that his ex falsified there divorce. Committed fraud and a felony?

Views: 128 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 12, 2019 8:52pm
by John

Julie

Temp Order

My name is not on the title or the mortgage of a home my husband bought. We are divorcing and the temp Order states that I am responsible for the 1st mortgage and he will pay the 2nd mortgage. He did not tell the court the correct amount of the 2nd mortgage, normsis...

Views: 162 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 12, 2019 8:48pm
by John

Brenda

divorce advice

I'm not sure how this works but I hope it helps. I have been reading all of the posts on here and its like I'm listening to myself talk. I'm currently going through divorce was married for 26 years. 3 wonderful kids I am the one who wanted the divorce. we have had...

Views: 228 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 10, 2019 5:25pm
by Susan

Payton

I’m doing this for my mother please read

I don’t know what else to do I’m looking for support anywhere I can get it. If someone anyone could share this link and help me. My mother is my hero in my life and has helped me through so much so now it’s my turn. https://www.gofundme.com/1lldo...

Views: 173 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 9, 2019 10:50pm
by Payton

Custodial mom

Child's Birthday

Non-custodial placed extended time on child's birthday day prior and day of giving himself entire day prior plus hours on her birthday and limiting my time on her birthday I told him I will file parenting interference he said he isn't interfering? Indiana

Views: 111 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 9, 2019 6:50pm
by John

Gothard

My Life

Please i don't know how i can heal from what hurt me so.... I need backups for me to go forward my life is in danger

Views: 159 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 10:38am
by John

Julie

Divorce

I am splitting from my husband. I am a nurse i make 100 thousand a year and he makes about 40 thousand. I was told id have to pay him 1800 to 2000 dollars a month for both spousal and child support. I tried asking him to agree to a lower amount but he wants to go aft...

Views: 151 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 10:36am
by John

I want a divorce

My husband an I have been married almost 3years but lately he hasn’t been talking to me it’s been over a week all he does is come home 5 hours after he has gotten off work an walks in the house not saying a word to me. We have 4 little daughters an my nam...

Views: 190 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 9:59am
by Anthony

Upset exwife

Ex husband is with my enemy now

HELP! My ex husband has started dating my #1 arch enemy! I do not know what to do. I think this has been going on for a while and I’m just now finding out. I do not trust her at all. My ex and I have a child together and I do not want her around him. I do not t...

Views: 168 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 3:00am
by John

Amanda

How to get through the other woman

My soon to be ex husband wanted a divorce after his dad told him to leave me before I took everything from him like his mom did him. Mind you his dad is currently doing drugs and an alcoholic. So I am a catholic women he does not believe. Bible says I am to let him g...

Views: 220 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 2:46am
by John

Danielle

changing filing status

I have filed for divorce on fault grounds about a year ago. My ex and I have agreed to file under uncontested to get it out of the way. Can I file a motion to the current filing or do I need to refile altogether? I am representing myself due to not having the financi...

Views: 140 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 2:03am
by John

Sharon

Anti-depressants and addiction killed my marriage

I have been disabled for a couple of years and our marriage was struggling waiting on a settlement and disability. The day I got my settlement.....My husband left me physically a little over 4 weeks ago.......said he didn't love me anymore... He has been back a few...

Views: 194 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 1:56am
by John

Lora

My husband had a baby with another women

After 7 years of marriage I found out that my husband was having affairs with several different women at his work. I found all of this out after receiving a court order in the mail for a paternity test. The baby was already a month old and my husband is the father. H...

Views: 131 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 1:49am
by John

Tormented

I was married for 18 1/2 years/dated for 3 1/2 before that. My divorce was initiated in March and final in May of this year. I had been unhappy for a long time with a very unaffectionate, unloving and volatile marriage. He has an addiction to porn and alcohol, howe...

Views: 231 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 1:48am
by John

Tara

Marriage proposal from a male domestic helper

Hailing from Mumbai, India.. Dear reader, i am aged 23- a jewelry designer at reputed retail store and also happen to own 3 bedroom flat which my parents gave as they live in another part of town. About a year ago, during maiden visit to slum areas for charity cau...

Views: 157 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 8, 2019 1:46am
by John

pbnjmom

My Ex is making my life impossable

I am looking for some advise. I told my ex it is over 4 months ago after 34 years of being an after though, and verbally abused. He has been crying for 4 months and depressed and even tried to kill him self with his diabetic meds. I had to call 911. He has since been...

Views: 97 Replies: 4

Last Post: Apr 7, 2019 10:33pm
by John

Kathleen

I own a business and my husband is the manager..

Over the last 2 years my husband and I have been contemplating divorce...we have now filed. After filing, I have discovered that he has been telling our customers that he is the owner and disparaging me to others...He has opened bank accounts in my company’s na...

Views: 153 Replies: 5

Last Post: Apr 7, 2019 10:27pm
by John

Theresa

Still loving the ex

How do you get over the ex? I left mine 3 years ago this December and I am still having issues. I miss him terrible. I still love him. Its crazy. I am the one who left. It killed me to leave. But I didn't know what else to do. In some ways I thought we would get b...

Views: 198 Replies: 6

Last Post: Apr 7, 2019 10:11pm
by John

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Views: 57 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 4, 2019 2:45am
by Aaden Wilson

Karin

Divorce caused by me

I caused the mess, and feel terribly guilty and really need to talk to someone without judgement. Thank you, Karin

Views: 269 Replies: 6

Last Post: Apr 2, 2019 3:05pm
by Nicole

Nicole

My Ex husband plans on taking the kids by making me fall for unpaid taxes and possible jail sentence

I am very recently devorced. But this is not the issue. The issue is that my husband started a business in my name, we were not married at the time. He operated and controlled everything.when a payment was to be done he would instruct me. Even the bank account is in...

Views: 138 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 2, 2019 2:17pm
by Nicole