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Sheila

First year after Anniversary being divorced

I didn’t think it would matter but when May 5 came today I woulve have married been for 17 years and I don’t know how I feel or what to do I still have a broken heart will it go away? He was the love of my life and I can’t even think about datin...

Views: 167 Replies: 2

Last Post: May 5, 2018 6:39pm
by Linda

Debbie

Why am I still crying for him

Within 3 weeks I have learned that my husband of 7 years and knowing each other for almost 15 years was having a affair, he moved out and lost his job and I am still just as much in love with him as I was on our wedding day. A friend of ours ( my husband old fire c...

Views: 238 Replies: 1

Last Post: May 5, 2018 5:06am
by Lara

Jae

Separated...

I have been married for 25 years. My husband lost his job a month before our son went to college last year. A major challenge in our marriage is financial. My husband says he has been unhappy for the last 2 years. He isn't where he wants to be at this time in his...

Views: 222 Replies: 3

Last Post: May 5, 2018 5:01am
by Lara

Marie

Confusion on whether to stay or go

My husband and I have been married 19 years together for almost 23. He has betrayed me several times over the years with many women. In 2015 I found out he had been texting and calling a woman from work and she had also been calling him. They spent their breaks toget...

Views: 308 Replies: 6

Last Post: May 4, 2018 11:34am
by Shari

Bob

Test

I m testing

Views: 93 Replies: 0

Last Post: Apr 30, 2018 5:00pm
by Bob

Perfect Solutions to Stop Divorce

Perfect Solutions to Stop Divorce

One can save marriage from divorce anytime if desired. Divorce can be really painful to most people. It can cause psychological and behavioral issues in the couple as well as in their children. So, it is very much necessary to take the right marriage advice in time a...

Views: 140 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 28, 2018 3:36pm
by SBA

Roxanne

Child custody

Okay so here is my question. My son who is 16 has been living wth my ex husband for four years, he has legal custody over him. His step mom kicked him out on Tuesday and he has been staying with me. Does he have to go back to his dads since he has full custody or can...

Views: 160 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 28, 2018 5:42am
by Lara

Erin

He's moving on and I'm devastated

The backstory: This New Year's Eve, I discovered that my fiance of 14 years and father of my 2 year old son had been texting a female coworker 24/7. When I confronted him, he said he didn't love me anymore and that he hadn't for about a year and a half but didn't kno...

Views: 241 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 27, 2018 4:04pm
by Linda

EBM

Not sure if I should stay or go...

I'm sure something similar has been posted here a dozen times, but I want to put my whole situation out there and get some thoughts from all of you. I have been married to my husband for about 6 years, together for 8. Honestly, even on our wedding day (I was only...

Views: 111 Replies: 4

Last Post: Apr 27, 2018 10:56am
by Jaimie

FAITH

Alimony, can I really get it?

Hi, I'm new to this whole process and nervous.. I've been married for 7 years and seperated for 3 of the 7 years. Wanted to work things out but he has moved on with his new live-in-girlfriend. I see no reason to remain married so im ready for a divorce. We are in the...

Views: 247 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 27, 2018 4:58am
by Lara

Jaimie

File for divorce or keep trying?

This may be a long post, bare with me. I've been with my husband for 6 years, married for 2.5. We fight/argue pretty much on a daily basis and it has been that way for a few years now (since before we got married). I will try not to make this too long, but I feel...

Views: 210 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 26, 2018 1:00pm
by Heather

Allisson

Don’t recognize the man I married

My ex has turned into a totally different person. I can barely recognize him as the man I married once upon a time. My friends tell me hes nuts and I shouldn’t even talk to him anymore with the way he has behaved and carried on. Can someone really change that...

Views: 395 Replies: 7

Last Post: Apr 26, 2018 12:36am
by Rebecca

Mary

Divorce and IRAs

Hi I have a question regarding 401k and second marriage. If at the start of the marriage my spouse had a substantial amount in the 401 k account then accrued a lot more in the same 401k while working and we were married....I know that in a divorce I am allowed half...

Views: 138 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 25, 2018 7:56pm
by April1982

Nelly

Don’t know what to do

Me and my husband are married for 7 years and have two kids 3 year old and 2 mo old . We have been friends over 15 years . Ever since i got pregnant with my second our relationship got worse . While i was healing from my c section i discovered in his phone that he wa...

Views: 178 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 25, 2018 12:20pm
by Lara

Heather

Why is it so hard for me to leave?

I don't know where to begin. I've been with my husband for 14 years, we've been married for 6. We have 3 beautiful children. I love him. But hes changed. Hes controlling. Emotionally abusive. He doesn't show me any affection. Hes addicted to his phone. When we get in...

Views: 177 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 24, 2018 5:08am
by Lara

Lynn

Lost and confused

My ex divorced me about a year and a half ago after 30 years of marriage. I have huge abandonment issues and I know that's why I started on line dating right away. I was terrified of being alone. Well here I am now living with my boyfriend of 10 months and I feel cra...

Views: 160 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 23, 2018 11:42pm
by SBA

Cathy

Partner of over 15 years suddenly decides to break up

My partner of 15 years recently announced he wanted to break up. It completely blindsided me. I've known him for over 24 years. We are older: he is 69 and I am 66. I am devastated. I can't believe this is happening at my age. Everything has been ripped from me and I...

Views: 139 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 23, 2018 10:40pm
by Cindy

Tina6997

Can’t move on

My husband of 21 years told me he doesn’t know if he wanted to be married to me anymore. When I came back from a weekend trip, he moved out of our master bedroom to the basement. I am completely devastated! I can’t seem to wrap my brain about his decision...

Views: 244 Replies: 7

Last Post: Apr 22, 2018 9:47pm
by Valerie

Callie

Help! I'm against shared parenting - 50/50 timeshare

Any experience with shared parenting - specifically 50/50 parenting time? Son is 22 months old We live 78 miles from each other Never married Dad left us when our son was 9 months old Dad wants 2/2/3 or similar schedule.

Views: 159 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 19, 2018 8:31pm
by April1982

Morse

Summer visitation and daycare.

I have sole legal custody and am the residential parent for school purposes. I have my child throughout the whole school year. The father has him every other week in the summer. While my ex is at work my child is attending day care or a house sitter I think I should...

Views: 121 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 19, 2018 8:28pm
by April1982

Christina B.

My X says my son doesn't want to come this summer

I've been separated from my sons father for over 10 years now. My son is 13 now and we have always been very close. I moved to Minnisota from Las Vegas 3 years ago. Son stayed with father in Law Vegas. The first summer my son came to visit for two weeks. Last summer...

Views: 99 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 19, 2018 4:15pm
by April1982

Cindy

Divorced without being divorced

My husband of 35 years has decided he no longer wants the responsibility of being married. He believes he is no longer in love with me (because the butterflies are gone) and would like to date other women. He wants to remain married on paper only for health insurance...

Views: 239 Replies: 5

Last Post: Apr 18, 2018 1:31pm
by NormalWoman

Elisa

I pay childsupport

Hi, I am divorced and I pay child support. No one will help me, I live paycheck to paycheck, 75 per week after bills. I have our son 50% of the time. I have an apt, but do not qualify for any programs to help me with rent. I have a 'good job'. I am educated, (masters...

Views: 151 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 18, 2018 1:23pm
by NormalWoman

kelley pellegrin

use of hubands credit card before divorce for attorney fees

Can I use it?

Views: 160 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 17, 2018 6:10pm
by Lauren

Ami

How to be strong during divorce?

After reading everyone’s post and reading what i wrote back in November i am not alone! I will say this is the worst process in history. It would have been nice if my work did not fire me after serving my husband in October but as i look back i would never have...

Views: 236 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 16, 2018 5:02pm
by Linda

Amanda

Leaving me

My husband has been buying vehicles and putting them in his lovers name so i can not claim them in a divorce. What can i do???

Views: 220 Replies: 4

Last Post: Apr 16, 2018 1:04pm
by Lara

Beca

Shared custody without a court hearing

My husband left after 10 years together to be with another woman which they already have a child together. We have 3 kids together (ages 11,9,7) and the relationship wasnt that bad but when child support came final and he saw how much it was he askes me to give him b...

Views: 114 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 16, 2018 12:43pm
by Lara

Christina

How to move forward with a divorce I don't want?

Three months ago I out of the blue I asked my husband if he was cheating on me. The strange part was that I didn't have any intuition that he was, it felt like God had spoken the words out of my mouth. I was incomplete shock when he said yes. It was a four month affa...

Views: 222 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 16, 2018 12:35pm
by Lara

Alyx

The Compulsive Liar, I need help.

I married my husband knowing he had a pornography addiction and compulsive lying issues. I thought he could improve, because I've never given him a reason not to trust me. No matter how hard marriage got, I never raised my voice when he came to me with a mistake or h...

Views: 241 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 16, 2018 12:29pm
by Lara

Jojo

Tips for getting Ex's crap out of my house

The martial settlement agreement says he had one week after the sale of another property to get his personal belongings out of my house. Stuff should have been out November 8th. I didn't rush anything because pushing him to do anything often irritates him to the poi...

Views: 203 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 12, 2018 2:50pm
by NormalWoman

Sierra

Not divorced, just perplexed.

I've been married for 5 years, no kids. I'm not divorced, but me and my husband have talked about it. I've always felt like we had the best relationship and chemistry, but there's an issue that keeps coming up and every time it comes up it becomes more and more of an...

Views: 218 Replies: 4

Last Post: Apr 12, 2018 2:10am
by Alyx

Renee

When a man can't be an adult

I'm in the worst place in my entire life and I don't know what to do, how to move, how to feel, and how to get through my days. My partner of 15 years basically ghosted me and our life together and the rug got pulled out from under me. He was away traveling and every...

Views: 225 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 12, 2018 1:38am
by Alyx

Kelley Douglas

So many issues. New member. Please help

So my husband was having another affair. 5 in the marriage I know of. This one was with some ***** he works with. I confronted him in April of last year and he left that day. Never came back. Never wanted to work it out. He filed for divorce in May. He wanted his att...

Views: 215 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 10, 2018 1:02pm
by Lara

Ami

Divorce and Fired from Job & Cat just got cancer

Tis the season to not be merry. I am wondering if I am alone through this process. You feel like No one understands what you are going through. I am that person that has been there for everyone and I don't see one person knocking on my door to offer a shoulder or to...

Views: 171 Replies: 7

Last Post: Apr 10, 2018 12:51pm
by Lara

joanne

Alimony and Gross Income

Hi ! The judge ordered alimony for me until I make 45k a year. I make 40k a year yet get 8 K in alony. I say I should still get alimony yet my ex says no because Alimony is gross income in Florida. Help

Views: 213 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 10, 2018 10:40am
by Lara

Sara

I just want peace...

So, to keep it fairly short, I'm going to condense a lot in this post. And I'm not sure how to put my messenger link in there, so I did my FB profile. I'm slightly tech-challenged. After losing my husband R, a friend stepped up and was very supportive. Eventual...

Views: 213 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 9, 2018 1:47pm
by Sara

Amber

Please PLEASE share for me help needed

Please can you help me and my girls by sharing this Go fundme campaign - anywhere and everywhere copy and paste to post. http://link.email.dynect.net/link.php?DynEngagement=true&H=HntimpDLyStGOYXpdPiwVW0yN%2FATWR4uavXwysSD9nYYm9kIBeK6bXstuG0QwIz5oiRATz2lZx90VHm%2...

Views: 151 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 5, 2018 5:38pm
by April1982

Shari

Stressed out, wish I had saved more

I filed for divorce last week. My ex was verbally abusive mainly due to his gambling addiction..he refuses to get help and calls me to tell me how he is feeling. I don't want to carry that weigh.. And then he snaps when he doesn't know where I am...he seems to think...

Views: 208 Replies: 3

Last Post: Apr 5, 2018 4:20pm
by April1982

Erin

Come back, or keep on moving?

My husband and I split in December after 14 years together. We have 3 young kids and many happy times. However they were always overshadowed by the lies, and the general lack of interest in our marriage. Starting from early on, he had a porn addiction. And I was away...

Views: 175 Replies: 2

Last Post: Apr 2, 2018 6:03am
by Mary

Kathleen

My husband moved out of the country and now my daughter is living with his friends

We are in the middle of a divorce... we are sharing custody and all decisions regarding our 17 year old are supposed to be discussed and agreed upon... our17 year old has been staying with my husband since October, which I agreed to because she was upset about the di...

Views: 117 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 2, 2018 5:53am
by Mary

Lara

Easter

Happy Easter to all the ladies facing divorce. Enjoy and I hope it will be a drama free day for you with some good weather.:sunflower:

Views: 115 Replies: 1

Last Post: Apr 2, 2018 5:08am
by Mary

dmb

cant believe i fell for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi well 38 yrs later and a troublsome last 4 yrs you see sex was very painful for me so i stopped the intercourse but did other things guess its not good enough . he goes away on business not sure how long the full body massages were going on but he now is on a vacat...

Views: 255 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 29, 2018 4:43pm
by Lara

Rachel

When to keep going

Hi - anyone ready to part ways with their husband, but don't know how to as you don't want to fight anymore or make things worse? During an argument I have expressed that we should split, that these repetitive fights are tiresome and affecting me and our children...

Views: 156 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 28, 2018 5:08am
by Lara

Mardi

Being left overnight with counselling request denied

My husband left me after a discussion by both us being unhappy with the relationship which I wanted to work on but he just stated he wanted to leave me. I was so angry when he stated no to counselling even if it meant me getting some closure. I told him to leave if h...

Views: 225 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 25, 2018 6:45am
by Lara

Heather

Husband caught betraying me

I am devastated. My husband was caught Friday night messaging another woman and making plans to meet her after work for sex. The things he said to her ripped my heart out. I take full blame for this heartache as he has done this many times in our 20 years and I have...

Views: 260 Replies: 4

Last Post: Mar 23, 2018 12:03pm
by Kate

Nat

Abusive ex husband

Hello everyone! I'm divorci g with my abusive husband. I lived 3 years of slapping, spitting, screaming with him. He slaped me even afyer I signed divorce paper and he was crying that hes "loosing his family". Most of the things were happening when he was drunk. N...

Views: 173 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 22, 2018 2:03am
by Mary

Hate

Joint flat

Need advice. Joint flat is in the process of selling. I and my kids have shifted out due to other committments. I have got to know that my ex is bringing his gf to stay overnight at our joint flat. Should I or can I get a lawyer to pursue this?

Views: 118 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 21, 2018 7:18pm
by April1982

Gio

It feels like my life is over

After 23 years , 16 of which we were married , my husband told me out of the blue he can't forgive my affair from 6 years ago and wants a divorce. At 60 I'm starting from scratch all over again. How?

Views: 300 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 21, 2018 5:55pm
by April1982

Hannah

Feeling down

This is my first time on here. My husband and I are likely going to get a divorce. I have done terrible things to him and have lied and cheated. I have some hope that maybe we can find eachother again in the future. What stinks is that we both still love eachother ve...

Views: 422 Replies: 17

Last Post: Mar 21, 2018 5:42pm
by April1982

Jojo

Ex not providing Insurance papers for taxes

I'm been texting with my ex, kindly asking for a copy of the IRS form 1095-C, the paperwork employers give which shows who in the family was covered by medical insurance and in which months. I divorced in May and have my form from my employer, but was covered by his...

Views: 151 Replies: 4

Last Post: Mar 17, 2018 6:31pm
by Jojo