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lifeinthrees

Trying to be a good mom but I despise my ex

Hi everyone, This is my first time here. My ex and I split up in the beginning of June. We were common law married and had been together almost 7 years. I found out he had been having, at the very least, an emotional affair with a woman and we had a really bad f...

Views: 221 Replies: 5

Last Post: Mar 17, 2018 5:54pm
by Brenda

Tonya

Preparing for divorce

I have been married for 19 years. He cheated several times or tried and I always stayed. He was caught very recently texting a woman and swapping pics....you know the kind. I am crushed. I feel hopeless. I love him so much. How do I cope with the grief?

Views: 235 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 17, 2018 4:31pm
by Tonya

Claire

Did anyone get awarded the matrimonial home in divirce

I'm getting divorced, was with my husband 19 years. He was abusive, unfaithful and that's just the start. He had a successful business and I helped make it a success however was mostly a housewife and full time mother. I found out about his last discretions and he le...

Views: 207 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 17, 2018 3:44pm
by Lara

SSS

Why is sex so important?

I hope I don’t offend anyone but I just don’t understand why my husband wants sex all the time. We are not teenagers anymore. We have responsibilities and things to do. We’ve been together for 20 years. I thought it was normal to settle into a comfo...

Views: 236 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 17, 2018 12:09pm
by Brenda

Difficulty starting over even when something good's happening

Hi, I was divorced in 2008, after 7 years of trying to, at age 48. I'd already given up a profession because I couldnt cope with troubles at home and work. I subsequently gave up a second profession because my life was threatened. Although I moved provinces I just co...

Views: 255 Replies: 4

Last Post: Mar 16, 2018 5:42am
by Vi

Sabrina

Ex signed and AGREED to ALL divorce papers . Can he change his mind?

Ex signed and AGREED to ALL divorce papers including the proposed parenting plan. ALL the papers have been filed and a court date to finalize everything has been set, but he recently changed his mind about the parenting plan, now that he has his first gf since we sep...

Views: 177 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 15, 2018 5:57pm
by April1982

Baby Birdie

Song for all the broken familys

https://soundcloud.com/user-832866809/could-have-been-1

Views: 149 Replies: 0

Last Post: Mar 15, 2018 1:38am
by Baby Birdie

kay

can't talk to my nearest and dearest they are too involved

Suffocating need help I am now single mother to 8 kids!! They are fantastic and make my life. my problem is my soon to be x husband is putting this all on me! he has drink problems and all that comes with that other women etc he superb as he always makes wor...

Views: 162 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 14, 2018 3:56pm
by Lara

Mary

Question for everyone

I’m curious to know how many people on here have a shared custody arrangement (50/50). If you do, does it work well or are there problems associated with it?

Views: 198 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 13, 2018 2:45am
by Jojo

Aka Eva

Step mother wants visitation rights of my boys

Okay, ive been devorced for just about 8 years now and my exhusbands wife now wants her name on the custody and visitation papers. As of right now their father is active duty in the navy. I have always done everything for my boys. He allowed my ex to have shared cust...

Views: 123 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 10, 2018 4:50pm
by Lara

Rosalia

Blindesided

It’s been almost 4 weeks since he blindesided me thag he was leaving . He fell out of love, hasn’t been happy for 3 years but meanwhile married me 8 months ago and we’ve been together for 5 years. Also admitted to abusing cocaine for the past three...

Views: 238 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 8, 2018 9:20pm
by Theresa

Blindsided Divorce

Blindsided Divorce My husband and I met when we were 18, straight out of high school, my first semester in College. He was my first in every aspect. My in all, end all. The past eight years, just like any relationship, we’ve had our ups and downs. We married...

Views: 196 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 7, 2018 10:40pm
by Theresa

Kim

Planning to leave

Hi all, new here. I have been married for many years, unhappily for most of it. I have dreamed about secretly planning to leave for years, but now I am ready to start planning. This will probably be a long process. Although he has never physically abused me, he is...

Views: 249 Replies: 4

Last Post: Mar 7, 2018 11:00am
by Aka Eva

Hannah

Getting there,2 days until the divorce proceedings start

Getting there,2 days until the divorce proceedings start.Seen my lawyer Friday,she has everything all set.It hopefully won't take too long,all my estranged husband wants is his Polaris Razor and 4 wheeler which are in my name due to bad credit he had in the past.They...

Views: 136 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 11:56pm
by E

Jen

Ex Intent to leave me with nothing, & my attorney stinks

My divorce has been dragged out for 2 years and 8 months. I’ve have to continually compel discovery, and have had 2 contempt of court hearings scheduled, which he was able to avoid by completing said requests only a day before hearings. My spouse is a high...

Views: 189 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 11:12pm
by E

Adele

Custody

When I first got divorced my daughter lived with me, well after about the first 8-9 months she started wanting more and more time with her dad. He remained and had a step daughter and a baby on the way, so my daughter wanted to be with him. I was emotionally a mess a...

Views: 133 Replies: 0

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 7:51pm
by Adele

Dawn

Dependency releases jurisdiction to family court & case is closed so what now?

Custodial & non-custodial parent have been co-parenting SUCCESSFULLY for 2 years now. Non-custodial parent was ordered supervised visitation when DCF Dependency case closed. DCF released jurisdiction to family court. If custodial parent agrees that unsupervised visit...

Views: 105 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 4:39pm
by Lara

SHARON Farley

Non compliant to Divorce Decree

I don't have a lawyer, so who do I go to, are file with, If he has not given me what the Divorce Decree awarded to me??

Views: 155 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 4:02pm
by Lara

Lori

Dating and alimony

What are the laws when receiving alimony in dating

Views: 191 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 6, 2018 3:54pm
by Lara

Spring

Just how deep rock bottom is?

As I stood in the kitchen staring at the microwave, waiting for my pizza to heat up, I heard a familiar song. All of a sudden I felt as if the ground beneath me started trembling, I thought that there was nowhere else to go once you hit rock bottom. Oh boy, I couldn&...

Views: 187 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 4, 2018 4:39am
by Mary

Carolyn

How did I spend 30 years with someone and not even know who they are?

I'm a year and a half into my separation. I caught him having an affair 18 months ago and ended the marriage immediately. I've since moved on and am happier than I have been in many years. I own the family home, have a great career and all our friends have stood b...

Views: 308 Replies: 3

Last Post: Mar 2, 2018 6:55am
by T

mayple

8 year old boy dealing with separation

I ended my marriage just before Christmas, I felt like a single mum who worked while the children were at school,he worked all hours enjoyed a healthy social life, earned 3 times i did and i still struggled with the bills and the daily routine with no help got too mu...

Views: 119 Replies: 1

Last Post: Mar 1, 2018 8:18pm
by April1982

Mary

Difficult ex

My ex husband has been difficult throughout the divorce and in the years since. We have three children in shared custody so I have no choice but to deal with him. The court decision included timeslots for phone calls to the kids when in the other parent’s custo...

Views: 153 Replies: 2

Last Post: Mar 1, 2018 7:15pm
by Mary

April1982

Did I Make A Mistake

I have been with my husband for 14 years, married 7. Last Summer I had an affair with my boss who is also married. I didn't want it to happen but I let it. At first it was strictly emotional with no physical contact. We would meet for coffee or dinner and I never...

Views: 328 Replies: 12

Last Post: Mar 1, 2018 7:05pm
by Mary

Chat rooms and porn

Why do people look at me like I am crazy when I get so upset that my husband is on chat rooms with people and watching porn a lot? It makes me feel cheated on and violated. But others I talk to about it say I’m being over dramatic that it means nothing. All gu...

Views: 213 Replies: 7

Last Post: Mar 1, 2018 1:45am
by SSS

Goldilocks

Mother with concerns for teenage daughter

I'm having problems with my teenage daughter and I don't know what to do

Views: 122 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 28, 2018 10:30am
by Lara

Payton

My husband wants divorced and I don’t.

He was my high school sweetheart. We have three kids together and I’m pregnant with our fourth. The most he will say is that he is unhappy and he wants a divorce. I don’t want to give up on my marriage because I truly love him. But right now he is someone...

Views: 187 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 28, 2018 10:23am
by Lara

Hurt Beyond Belief

He re-found a lost love

I feel so betrayed. Just passed 18th wedding anniversary on 2/19. He did not remember. Makes sense since he has been pawning for a lost love he recently found. Trying to be strong and let my intellectual brain win over my emotional brain. He was my first love;...

Views: 123 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 28, 2018 6:09am
by Lara

Lola

Can abusive men change?

Hi. Ive been with my now-husband for 10 years, married for three. He's been emotionally abusive for a couple of years, I just thought it was "normal". Up to where i started to find thr fault with myself. Maybe if i did this or that he'll change. This last year he's b...

Views: 194 Replies: 3

Last Post: Feb 26, 2018 10:02am
by Kelly O

Jean

Infidelity

Husband was drinking all weekend. I heard him go downstairs and heard his voice cause it follows with the heating vents so you can hear w no problem. It was 430am on Sunday. Be lied when I asked who he was talking to at 430am in the Morning. That was a trigger for hi...

Views: 166 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 25, 2018 5:38pm
by Anna

Nena

I have the custody and I pay child support now he’s sue me

My case is absolutely CRAZY After my divorce I am the primary guardian with a part time job and I pay my ex husband child support Final judgment decided me stay at the marital home ( without harmless me with taxes, insurance, mortgage) until in 90 days my ex give...

Views: 106 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 25, 2018 4:23pm
by Lara

Eva

Correct Child Support

Several years ago the court ordered a support for 4 children based on income amounts entered through false paperwork and lies given under oath. Several years later we received documents from a past employer showing his true income. It was not just a minor amount bu...

Views: 95 Replies: 0

Last Post: Feb 23, 2018 1:46am
by Eva

betty

in laws breaking us apart

hi i need advice. dealing with in law problems for 2 years its been on and off communication with husband but every year its the same pattern for us we always try and weather the storm but im tired of my husband's mood any big family occassions he gets angry...

Views: 129 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 9:24pm
by Nena

Theresa

Anyone else afraid of commitment again?

My boyfriend recently told me I was "the only woman in America who is afraid of commitment." Of course he was exaggerating bc we were in kind of an argument. But anyway, he kind of has a point bc I had brought up the topic of us moving in together months ago and was...

Views: 143 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 9:16pm
by Nena

Jane

Child relocation?

I have a 3 year old girl and I am pregnant with my husband. He recently obtained a promotion and relocation in his work and he accepted it. I plan to go with him when our baby is born. I already told my daughter's father but he is in total denial. What would be the b...

Views: 124 Replies: 2

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 9:08pm
by Nena

He promised to love me forever but now he wants a divorce

I am separated and my husband has moved on with his life. I am upset with myself for believing his lies. I don't want to leave my house other than to go to work. I only go to work because I have to pay my bills. I have started attending church online. I feel like I j...

Views: 254 Replies: 3

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 9:04pm
by Nena

Nena

I have the custody and I pay child support now he’s sue me

Views: 68 Replies: 0

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 8:57pm
by Nena

Faye Grant

Your Gut is Your Power

There are moments in life when someone says a word or a phrase and everything changes and nothing is ever the same. “I lied about what I did to that girl” was the start of the end of my life as I knew it. 12 years before, a small purple handwritten...

Views: 235 Replies: 2

Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 7:07pm
by Wendie

Anon

Divorce refusal help

Anyone know what this means please provide evidence of disposal of nulity case proceedings before your application will be considered further

Views: 127 Replies: 0

Last Post: Feb 20, 2018 12:10pm
by Anon

Mace

Michigan uncontested divorce

So we are getting divorced in Michigan. We are agreeable on all terms of our divorce. Can we file an uncontested divorce? If he files, do I need to appear in court? I was originally going to file to keep the divorce in my county, but I read that a lot of times the fi...

Views: 128 Replies: 2

Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 11:41am
by Lara

Cori

So tired of all this

How do I keep my controlling and abusive husband in check?

Views: 185 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 11:38am
by Lara

Tami

Relocation with new partner in different state and 15 yr old son staying

Hi I have been divorced for 4 yrs and have a new life ina different state. We have been traveling back and forth to see each other monthly and now want to be together in his state. My 15 yr old son is shared custody with x. My question is how do you deal with the p...

Views: 97 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 10:04am
by gaiil

Alberta

I filed for divorce in Alberta. They said I had to wait to get my statement of claim back and then serve it. How long does it take to get my papers back?

Views: 89 Replies: 0

Last Post: Feb 18, 2018 9:57pm
by Jp

Hannah

Tough situation for me and now divorce next

Tough situation for me,husband left me yesterday and said he cheated on me.Left me for an ex friend of mine.I was heart broken and in tears.We were married for 16 years and no kids luckily,don't have to mess with any child support issues.Next step is filing for divor...

Views: 252 Replies: 5

Last Post: Feb 16, 2018 8:27am
by Tater Tote

Hannah

Have someone helping me through it

Have someone helping me through this divorce,a co worker and she has given me some great advice.Her name is Holly and she has been through what I am going through,her ex husband also cheated on her and booted his butt out.Told me her experience from the divorce which...

Views: 128 Replies: 0

Last Post: Feb 15, 2018 3:07pm
by Hannah

How do I inspire my attorney to be my true advocate?

I retained a top women's advocate as listed in her bio and the sound reputation of the firm. Her professional aspirations and now district responsibilities seem to have dampened her commitment to my divorce case. I have quite a bit of funds invested and to move on d...

Views: 147 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 13, 2018 3:55pm
by Lara

Autumn Allman

If you live in or around Atlanta, and want to be a guest star on a Christian program to speak about

Hey people! Do you live in or around Gwinnett,Georgia? Want to be a guest on a TV show?? My production company is looking for the following: 1. Cou

Views: 100 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 9, 2018 8:17pm
by Autumn Allman

Emma

Separation Anxiety in 7 year old after divorce and other changes

Hi there How do you deal with a child who has acute separation anxiety? To the point where you can't leave the room without the child following close behind, like a shadow? The child will not sleep alone, will not go to the toilet on their own, won't be in a roo...

Views: 158 Replies: 1

Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 9:04pm
by E

Amanda Gordon

Shock

I am kind of in the same boat. We have been together almost 18 years and married for almost 17 we have a 15.5 year old a 14 year old and a 7 month old. We just had a baby and he decided that someone he works with is more important. She is 8 years younger then him but...

Views: 164 Replies: 2

Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 8:50pm
by E

Penny

Divorce advice

Husband abandoned me, left all his belongings, moved in with another woman a month after, now she's pregnant. How do I get whats rightfully mine when he refuses to talk.

Views: 231 Replies: 4

Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 2:56pm
by Kj