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I have the custody and I pay child support now he’s sue me
My case is absolutely CRAZY
After my divorce I am the primary guardian with a part time job and I pay my ex husband child support
Final judgment decided me stay at the marital home ( without harmless me with taxes, insurance, mortgage) until in 90 days my ex give...
Views: 99 Replies: 0
Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 8:57pm
by Nena
by Nena
Your Gut is Your Power
There are moments in life when someone says a word or a phrase and everything changes and nothing is ever the same.
“I lied about what I did to that girl” was the start of the end of my life as I knew it.
12 years before, a small purple handwritten...
Views: 262 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 21, 2018 7:07pm
by Wendie
by Wendie
Divorce refusal help
Anyone know what this means please provide evidence of disposal of nulity case proceedings before your application will be considered further
Views: 155 Replies: 0
Last Post: Feb 20, 2018 12:10pm
by Anon
by Anon
Michigan uncontested divorce
So we are getting divorced in Michigan. We are agreeable on all terms of our divorce. Can we file an uncontested divorce? If he files, do I need to appear in court? I was originally going to file to keep the divorce in my county, but I read that a lot of times the fi...
Views: 154 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 11:41am
by Lara
by Lara
So tired of all this
How do I keep my controlling and abusive husband in check?
Views: 211 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 11:38am
by Lara
by Lara
Relocation with new partner in different state and 15 yr old son staying
Hi I have been divorced for 4 yrs and have a new life ina different state. We have been traveling back and forth to see each other monthly and now want to be together in his state. My 15 yr old son is shared custody with x. My question is how do you deal with the p...
Views: 126 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 19, 2018 10:04am
by gaiil
by gaiil
Tough situation for me and now divorce next
Tough situation for me,husband left me yesterday and said he cheated on me.Left me for an ex friend of mine.I was heart broken and in tears.We were married for 16 years and no kids luckily,don't have to mess with any child support issues.Next step is filing for divor...
Views: 282 Replies: 5
Last Post: Feb 16, 2018 8:27am
by Tater Tote
by Tater Tote
Have someone helping me through it
Have someone helping me through this divorce,a co worker and she has given me some great advice.Her name is Holly and she has been through what I am going through,her ex husband also cheated on her and booted his butt out.Told me her experience from the divorce which...
Views: 156 Replies: 0
Last Post: Feb 15, 2018 3:07pm
by Hannah
by Hannah
How do I inspire my attorney to be my true advocate?
I retained a top women's advocate as listed in her bio and the sound reputation of the firm. Her professional aspirations and now district responsibilities seem to have dampened her commitment to my divorce case. I have quite a bit of funds invested and to move on d...
Views: 177 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 13, 2018 3:55pm
by Lara
by Lara
If you live in or around Atlanta, and want to be a guest star on a Christian program to speak about
Hey people! Do you live in or around Gwinnett,Georgia? Want to be a guest on a TV show?? My production company is looking for the following: 1. Cou
Views: 131 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 9, 2018 8:17pm
by Autumn Allman
by Autumn Allman
Separation Anxiety in 7 year old after divorce and other changes
Hi there
How do you deal with a child who has acute separation anxiety? To the point where you can't leave the room without the child following close behind, like a shadow? The child will not sleep alone, will not go to the toilet on their own, won't be in a roo...
Views: 183 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 9:04pm
by E
by E
Shock
I am kind of in the same boat. We have been together almost 18 years and married for almost 17 we have a 15.5 year old a 14 year old and a 7 month old. We just had a baby and he decided that someone he works with is more important. She is 8 years younger then him but...
Views: 192 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 8:50pm
by E
by E
Divorce advice
Husband abandoned me, left all his belongings, moved in with another woman a month after, now she's pregnant. How do I get whats rightfully mine when he refuses to talk.
Views: 267 Replies: 4
Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 2:56pm
by Kj
by Kj
Divorce
When on trial in a divorce case, i hesitated with the word irretrievable. Our judge couldnt find our marriage irretrievable. So she would give me 2 to 3 weeks to contest if i still want to proceedmoving forward. It is on record.She gave a ruling in four days,it state...
Views: 146 Replies: 0
Last Post: Feb 8, 2018 12:44pm
by Kj
by Kj
Divorced after 30 years of marriage
Yesterday I got my final decree of divorce. When I saw it in my email my heart skipped a beat and emotions that I did not expect came up on me. After 30 years of marriage I am now single and I don't know what to do with that. I'm so used to having a companion. I'm on...
Views: 346 Replies: 5
Last Post: Feb 5, 2018 8:30pm
by CB
by CB
Old wedding photos
What do you do with old wedding photos after divorce? Here is an interesting blog post about it but I wondered what others do. https://emotionalpackrat.blogspot.com
Views: 313 Replies: 4
Last Post: Feb 5, 2018 6:10am
by Theresa
by Theresa
Retired before marriage, spouse wants everything
10 yr Florida marriage, bought home with premarital funds, pay mortgage etc. Spouse lives in home and refuses to help financially. spouse makes 35000.00/yr. my premarital retirement is about 60000.00/yr. Spouse wants house, and alimony.
Views: 198 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 3:58pm
by E
by E
He wont leave
Hi there, Need some advice quickly.I have recently decided to divorce my husband for a multitude of reasons and I have clearly expressed to him that I would like for him to leave our home. We have no children together but i have 3 kids in the home. We had just purcha...
Views: 200 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 1:29pm
by E
by E
Annulment
Can i get a annulment if i felt pressure and unsure about the marriage?
Views: 179 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 12:36pm
by looking for hope...
by looking for hope...
Husband signed notary stamped letter to give me house and to still pay half of house payment til pai
After finding out my husband was cheating with a woman in another state having a text relationship. I asked my husband to leave and to divorce.
My husband wrote up a letter and had it notary stamped that he gave me the house, and would pay half the house payment t...
Views: 160 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 9:33am
by E
by E
Rights to home?
My husband is not on the land, and is willing to be taken off the mortgage. Once this happens, what rights does he still have to it? We are not divorced yet. Could he still get half? Or the interest amount? Equity?
Views: 203 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 8:56am
by TG
by TG
Questions about the process
Is it normal for a lawyer to approve an extension of an interrogatory request that came at the 11th hour without consulting the client? I have reason to believe it was never started. Is it not standard to ask for the reason for the extension? I was advised it was com...
Views: 206 Replies: 1
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 4:15am
by E
by E
Divorce Advise (Nevada) wanted
I am going through a divorce after a 28 year marriage. My ex had a PI out on me, put a GPS in my car and had had numerous affairs I am NOT able to prove, though he was caught. I did not thing to take pictures or save proof at the time. He is creating a narrative that...
Views: 178 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 4, 2018 3:54am
by E
by E
Broken Heart
My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We've had major ups and downs. I want to work on the married and have my whole heart into it despite the past issues. He recently told me he no longer wants to be with me because, I'm selfish, don't appreciate him, no...
Views: 289 Replies: 2
Last Post: Feb 3, 2018 12:25pm
by Chary Swarthout
by Chary Swarthout
Do I have any rights?
Hello,
I have been married almost 2 years here California. My husband is an alchohlic and I can't live like this anymore.He is verbally abusive and financially controlling. I am currently unemployed but actively seeking work.
He (husband) kicked me out of the house...
Views: 177 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 31, 2018 5:36am
by Lara
by Lara
Child support if custodial parent income is higher
Hi;
I was wondering if anyone knew what effect a higher income would do to child support payments. iF the custodial parents income goes up. I’m the mother of 2, and my income is set to be a lot higher than my soon to be ex husbands. Thanks
Views: 191 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jan 30, 2018 12:55am
by Carol
by Carol
Starting separation process
I feel so alone and broken I'm 28 been with my spouse for 12 years and married for 2 years no children's. I've been dealing with his infidelity issue for years now and can't take it any longer. I want to get a divorce but feel so lost. I know I'm fed up and being sin...
Views: 314 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jan 28, 2018 6:37pm
by Chrissy
by Chrissy
Feeling numb
In the initial first steps of a divorce. He wants to take my son for full custody so he doesn't have to pay. Married for almost 10 years he cheated on me with someone at work
Views: 223 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 28, 2018 6:28pm
by Chrissy
by Chrissy
36 years and my marriage is over
I finally have realize that it's really over. In 2009 my husband was laid off, I think he went into a depression. He was drunk each and every night on the floor, unable to walk, he would not be able to go to the bathroom. I helped him up, hid from him at times when h...
Views: 317 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jan 27, 2018 10:59pm
by E
by E
terrible situation.. need help and advice.
So the situation is the ex n i were never married nor live together but it started about when we got pregnant n first found out and this was my first child found out the ex got his ex gf pregnant as well while we were in a relationship. through out that whole time he...
Views: 346 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jan 27, 2018 9:10pm
by elle
by elle
Non payment child support and alimony in NJ (Probation Department)
Anyone in NJ have experience with a non paying spouse? My ex is about 8 weeks late on alimony and child support. I expected this kind of behavior, that's why I had payments go through the Probation department. Thing is, the ex lost his job a few months pack for ca...
Views: 155 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 27, 2018 3:51pm
by Lara
by Lara
Rights after mortgage has been taken care of
My husband and I are getting divorced. He is not on the land of the home, he is only on the mortgage, and has agreed to be removed from it. Once this is done, what rights does he have as far as items in the home? Is there a way to say we're done, you can't come back...
Views: 161 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 27, 2018 5:36am
by Lara
by Lara
Things are getting messy
My ex and I were never marry and have a 18month old . We have a great schedule and have no court **** and works great , well he want to move to a town a hour away and I understand why abut now we are running into a problem with school and daycare if he does . We are...
Views: 222 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 25, 2018 6:02am
by Lara
by Lara
Divorce after being cheated on.
Ladies, we need to start protecting ourselves as soon as we say "I Do". We think when we both say "Until to us part" it really will be exactly that. Well unfortunately only one of us took that seriously. I was married for 19 years before I found out my husband, who c...
Views: 190 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jan 22, 2018 5:48pm
by Diane Pontoni
by Diane Pontoni
Finding balance again
I have been separated from my husband since Dec. 3rd. Still so fresh. I have days of clarity where I am sure I am on the right path. That we are doing the right thing. Other days I can hardly breathe for the pain of being alone again after all this time. We were...
Views: 202 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 22, 2018 4:56am
by Lara
by Lara
help need advice
I have been married 7 years. My husband was fired from his job a few years ago then found a job when we bought our house. He started drinking he says because I was making him work full time and the house is too much work. He would spend money for his toys. He sai...
Views: 217 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 21, 2018 4:56pm
by Cathy
by Cathy
Decided to Divorce
My husband has hurt me in so many ways. He has been physically abusive in the past, verbally abusive (telling me he hates me and never wants to speak to me again), cheated on me (which I just found out a month ago), and a disappointing, disinterested father to our s...
Views: 285 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jan 21, 2018 4:02pm
by Lonely Heart
by Lonely Heart
Depression and Divorce
Having trouble getting out of my depression following my separation
Views: 309 Replies: 7
Last Post: Jan 19, 2018 4:10am
by Lara
by Lara
Overwhelmed by family issues
My husband just kicked me out because I relapsed and got a dui. Yes, I know it was stupid, and I'm kicking myself over it, but the marriage was already in turmoil from his constant emotional abuse and on its way downhill anyways.
Anyways, my husband and two boys (...
Views: 196 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 19, 2018 4:07am
by Lara
by Lara
loniness
I am separated from my husband for 2 yrs now. He has moved on with his like in all ways. we barely speak much at all. He was my best friend and I miss him so much. We were together for 17 years. then he up and left without me knowing how unhappy he was in our marriag...
Views: 252 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jan 17, 2018 8:14am
by j
by j
divorce w/ no kids, in FL
My husband and I are about to file. No kids, just 2 dogs, 2 Harley’s, a Wrangler and a Santa Fé. No car payments on any of that, and we rent, so no house or anything. I just moved out, he wants to pay half my rent at my new place, half the dog vet bills, a...
Views: 182 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 17, 2018 3:50am
by Lara
by Lara
DON'T KNOW HOW TO LET GO
I have been separated from my husband for almost 2 yrs which I felt I was blindsided by him. I am still very hurt after giving myself to him for a total of 17 yrs. We have a 6yr old as well. After he left he moved in with his now gf who he refuses to claim 3 weeks af...
Views: 416 Replies: 11
Last Post: Jan 16, 2018 4:51am
by RSCoach
by RSCoach
27 year marriage ends
My husband recently asked for a divorce, he said there
Wasn’t another women I knew he was lying. Turns
Out he is love with a 26 year old he met on the internet
And is planning his wedding already. It’s a scam
Some women’s photo were stolen of...
Views: 438 Replies: 11
Last Post: Jan 14, 2018 3:30pm
by Linda
by Linda
advice
Help.
I have been married for almost 7 years. My husband has now been fired for the 2nd time and drained us financially with his spending. He also drinks. I asked him to leave the house 8 months ago which has been nice. I spoke to an attorney about divorce and w...
Views: 185 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 14, 2018 11:43am
by Lara
by Lara
Life After Divorce
What was your greatest challenge as a newly divorced woman after your divorce was finalized? What resources do you wish were available to help you?
Views: 294 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jan 12, 2018 10:56am
by Joyce
by Joyce
Abandonment
My husband of almost 10 yrs abandoned me with no indication whatsoever that he was unhappy in our marriage. On Tuesday he left for a work training, kissed me & then sent a text telling me he loved me & couldn't wait to see me the next evening. On Wednesday morning I...
Views: 257 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 12, 2018 4:44am
by Lara
by Lara
Lonely in a marriage
Hello, I have been with my husband since the age of 14 we have two beautiful children together. It has now been 12 years together and things use to be great. For the past 2 years now things have been very bad, he's very abusive mentally and disrespects me in front of...
Views: 265 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jan 11, 2018 11:40am
by Cathy
by Cathy
Support group in Delaware
Hi . I am looking for a support group in Delaware.....Newark/Wilmington area. If anyone knows of one I would appreciate it.
Views: 163 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jan 8, 2018 7:58pm
by E
by E