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Delia

Big Decision

I’ve been separated from my husband of 27 years for about 3 years, but we still kind of act like a married couple and we are more like friends instead of spouses. I still go out to the house and hang out pretty much every day with him and our boys and their wiv...

Views: 176 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 20, 2022 4:43am
by Kaz

Lisa

Blindsided

So my husband secretly planned to divorce me after 25 years. We had been having a hard time the last 2 months but we never even sat down to try to work through it. I know he is a jerk and I should be happy but I just can’t believe he would go about it so advers...

Views: 251 Replies: 5

Last Post: Jan 19, 2022 8:48am
by Light

Anon

Need an ear

I just need a place to vent and get advice. I am at my moms house with the kids now. This happens quite a bit. I get kicked out or whatever but this time I willingly left and I don’t know if I can go back. It’s too difficult. My husband doesn’t want...

Views: 167 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 19, 2022 4:04am
by Delia

Mayra

I need your sincere opinions 🙏

I am 64 years old Is it too late to decide to divorce after a long marriage ? (35 yrs ) We are both financial well Thank you

Views: 188 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 18, 2022 9:24pm
by Mayra

Lydia

He is so rude

Why he is so rude ? He always like to yell at people we both know that works with us when things does not go his way No respect 😠 He looses his temper for anything that will bother him no matter how small or big the situation is I have told him many times to b...

Views: 151 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 14, 2022 9:18pm
by Lourdes

Laurel

Visitation issues

It's a long story... My son's father (we'll call him Andy) and I were never married, and he is homeless in another state. He receives his mail through an acquaintance who lets him know he has mail, as far as I know. He's been very secretive about his whereabouts a...

Views: 267 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 14, 2022 10:16am
by Laurel

Linda

How did you divorce a husband who doesn’t want a divorce?

Firstly, I know I have the right to divorce even if my husband doesn’t want one. If I am unhappy then I know I am allowed to divorce and he has to accept it… but has anyone else been in a situation where they are so worried to tell their spouse they want...

Views: 229 Replies: 7

Last Post: Jan 13, 2022 5:57pm
by ZooMom84

Carolyn Collin

Sign Up Now! Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends Workshop. Starts January 19, 2022

About this Eventbrite 10 Weeks: beginning every Wednesday from January 19th through to March.23, 2022. 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm MTN, Via Zoom Has your relationship just ended? Experiencing a loss? Are you asking, “Should I stay or should I go?” Ha...

Views: 128 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 12, 2022 5:08pm
by Carolyn Collin

Beth Simons

Separation snd finances when you are the bread winner

Looking for some advice here… I recently found out my husband of 23 years is cheating on me the last three years. He doesn’t work and hasn’t worked the majority of our marriage. He is basically a bum who smokes weed, plays video games, eats and slee...

Views: 142 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 12, 2022 5:13am
by Kaz

Shon

I need a contested divorce but I can't afford a lawyer I'm on SSI

I'm in need of a contested divorce My husband cheated on me in 2003 and abandoned the home and left me and my daughter to survive on our own.He cheated and had 2 boys back to back with his mistress,he said he would do me a favor by taking his name off the lease.So w...

Views: 133 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 12, 2022 2:16am
by Shon

Donna Curtis

Divorce and death

My friend just got a divorce a month ago. Her husband had 60 days to take her name off the loan of his pickup as decreed in the divorce. Before the 60 days were up he passed away. Is my friend still responsible for the loan?

Views: 135 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 11, 2022 9:29am
by Donna Curtis

Jen

Settlement offers with Narcissist

I’m recently separated, filed for divorce in June 2021, and have compromised on most everything my ex has requested. However, he is continually deceitful, makes additional demands and refuses to honor commitments. His attorney specializes in “men’s...

Views: 253 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 11, 2022 7:58am
by Jen

Katie Beard

Form E financial hearing

Hi I completed my form E last June ready for our hearing in July 2021 it canceled the day before I still sent all my up today bank statements until August 2021 to the court. We have a new hearing set for thr 23rd of March 2022 do I need to do a new form E or just up...

Views: 117 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 8, 2022 3:02am
by Katie Beard

elizabeth

Divorce and Custody with an Alcoholic/Addict

I am in the process of filing for divorce from my husband. He has been out of the home for almost a year, I had a temp restraining order in the beginning for 2 weeks. He is an alcoholic and addict. He completed a 30 day inpatient treatment a few months ago, he lived...

Views: 152 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 7, 2022 6:55am
by elizabeth

Lola

I feel Miserable

I am staying in this marriage just because i feel sorry for him Because he has no friends , not even his own kids wants him, absolutely no one I feel miserable I do not know what to do ?? I have been in this marriage for over 30 years I even do not why I love him...

Views: 308 Replies: 9

Last Post: Jan 5, 2022 11:14pm
by Lola

Caroline

Panic attacks when wanting to tell my husband I want a divorce

Does anyone else / has anyone else had extreme anxiety / panic attacks over telling their husband they want a divorce? My husband has been on steroids throughout of 5 year marriage and we have been unable to have children because the steroids made him infertile. I ha...

Views: 149 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 3, 2022 12:41pm
by Caroline

Chantal

Women

Are there any people on here who were married to a woman?

Views: 126 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 3, 2022 7:59am
by Chantal

Sharry

Is this normal? Will it pass?

Hello everyone, I am going through a separation, and I am having terrible anxiety. Let me give you some background about my relationship. I was 18 when I met my husband. He was my first and only boyfriend and my first and only sexual partner for the past 15 years....

Views: 183 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 3, 2022 6:40am
by Kaz

Reddy

In need of advice and support

Been a rough almost 2 years! Got married he was diagnosed with cancer. Last January he got covid. I took care of him at home, thought I was watching him die. Now he is better but our lives are going in different directions. I want to grow food live a simpler healthie...

Views: 159 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 3, 2022 5:20am
by Kaz

Monica

What did you do with your wedding ring

I've been divorced now for over a year and I'm puzzled at what to do with my wedding ring. I don't wish to pass it down to my kids and the thought of making something else out of it, a necklace or other jewelry, I really don't want to make anything out of it as it re...

Views: 180 Replies: 5

Last Post: Jan 2, 2022 2:27pm
by Ring-a-round-the...

Shana Weiss

Newly split

Hello everyone. I am dealing with a new separation. My husband and I have been married for 32 years and I’m devistated 😢

Views: 279 Replies: 6

Last Post: Jan 2, 2022 10:12am
by J

Lisa

Need advice

Honestly I am very traumatized from this whole thing! Going thru a divorce is so hard! I picked up the kids on Friday from their dad the first thing they said is he got you a Christmas present. He never celebrated Christmas while we were together. They then told me h...

Views: 268 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 2, 2022 10:07am
by J

Diane

New Year, New Start

Big shout out to everyone on what is another one of the key dates . Well we all got Christmas out of the way and we survived , we are all on different part of the journey , so whether , it was through tears, anger, sadness , acceptance, , we all survived. We all...

Views: 135 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 1, 2022 10:13pm
by Mimi

Josie

Separated for 8 months

It had been 8 months that I have been separated from a 25 years of marriage (we have lost contact all of a sudden) Is it normal to feel this way ( I am getting used to being separated) Why am I feeling this way???

Views: 234 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 1, 2022 10:07pm
by Laura

Matese

The pain

How do you cope with the pain. The only time I don't hurt is when I'm asleep.:cry:

Views: 1078 Replies: 7

Last Post: Dec 31, 2021 7:32pm
by Sharry

monica

betrayul

hes not good to me, hes married and has been for 7 yrs we,ve been together they still communicate ,today i saw where he put her in hhis phone as wife i knew when i saw her on dumb asses facebook , sex is terrible. i saw porn he was looking at on his phone,was 2 men d...

Views: 182 Replies: 4

Last Post: Dec 30, 2021 11:49pm
by Kaz

Mya

Newly separated

I’m trying to figure out if this is what’s right for me. I got married at only 18. My husband was 21. He has battled an addiction to gay pornography for our whole marriage. And (10 years prior to us getting married.) and continually lied to me over and ov...

Views: 179 Replies: 0

Last Post: Dec 30, 2021 7:23am
by Mya

Renee

Divorce

Feeling very scared and unsure . I’ve been married for 20 years . We have 4 young kids. Since my husband and I hit our 40”s there was such a change .he just wants to go out every other night partying. So we separated for a month. After that time he said t...

Views: 218 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 30, 2021 6:56am
by Kaz

Elysia

Looking for guidance/insight

I first want to say thank you all for being so transparent on here about your situations and feelings. It helps to know there’s others who can relate to the pain of an impending divorce. My husband has been having an affair for 6 months. I just found out bef...

Views: 272 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 30, 2021 6:42am
by Kaz

Mimi

Sick ex husband

Hello It has been almost 1 year that I filed for divorce Would you take care of your ex if he is sick even though he was disrespectful???

Views: 240 Replies: 7

Last Post: Dec 29, 2021 11:15pm
by Mimi

Beth

Afraid of what the future holds 😞

I am all by myself I do not have any kids I got divorce when I was 60yrs old because he was an narcissistic person .... now I am 64yrs all I have is a sister I have few friends that I talk through Zoom since they all live out of the state And my sister lives out...

Views: 434 Replies: 5

Last Post: Dec 28, 2021 1:13pm
by Grew up in Calif...

Sam

My husband isn’t interested in me

Hey guys. I got married 6 years ago. A week after our honeymoon my husband texts me and tells me that he has a porn problem. I was really upset because I didn’t know the extent of the problem and why he hid it from me for two years. After talking to him abou...

Views: 213 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 26, 2021 2:40pm
by emma

Heather

New on here

I’m so sad. I’ve just been sitting on my bed with my cat for the last few hours crying. I’ve been trying to find a support group for divorce that was in person but there isn’t much out there with covid. Not only am I finally getting a divorce...

Views: 148 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 26, 2021 1:11am
by Diane

Diane

Just a day

Just a shout out to everyone who might be struggling , because of impending divorce , or just divorced , or going through it . You might feel even more fragile at this time of year, You will get through it , another one to tick off your list, ie first birthday, anni...

Views: 227 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 25, 2021 9:47pm
by Heather

Jenny

Anxiety and panic attacks this first days after divorce

Im feeling horrible!

Views: 246 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 25, 2021 12:56pm
by Diane

Anon

Curiosity

Do y’all think a man ever has a good reason to hurt his wife?

Views: 142 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 21, 2021 9:55pm
by Mirna

The one who got away

Divorcing a NARC

I am in the process of divorcing a NARC. I have children and I am preparing for a rough road ahead.

Views: 278 Replies: 7

Last Post: Dec 21, 2021 6:08pm
by Anon

Confusedandhurt

Husband wants divorce

My husband of almost 8 years, together almost 10 told me last night he was unhappy with me and didnt even find joy coming home to me anymore. He was only happy to be coming home to our 3 year old son. We have had issues but never gone to therapy, just talked and buri...

Views: 313 Replies: 4

Last Post: Dec 21, 2021 4:36pm
by Denise

katrina spears

divorce

I just got divorced in June of 2021 and it was a real shock. I wasn't expecting it we were married for 32 years and of course, he has major issues going on with his life. But I was there for him for most of our marriage. My question is I'm having a hard time with it...

Views: 180 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 20, 2021 10:07am
by Light

Keila

I need some help from this forum

My name is Keila and I filed for divorce 1 yr and 1/2 ago from my ex that was controlling and an narcissist , the day after I filed for divorce , my sister in law ( my ex sister) called me but I did not answered her call and since than she has not called me ( I was a...

Views: 165 Replies: 2

Last Post: Dec 18, 2021 12:55pm
by Keila

Emily Wells

I received a homeowners insurance refund check after our divorce was already final.

Our divorce was final in March of this year, and my ex-husband decided to switch homeowners insurance companies last month. That's one of the things we overlooked during the divorce… I signed a quitclaim deed to get my name off the deed to the house, but we wer...

Views: 111 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 18, 2021 5:40am
by Bella

Carrie

Foreclosure after refusing to refinance as stated in divorce decree

I gave my ex-husband our home in our divorce back in 2004. The divorce decree stated he was to refinance out of my name, but gave no time frame. I saw a lawyer maybe 3 years after the divorce and she said with no time frame, there wasn't much I could do. He moved out...

Views: 231 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 18, 2021 5:28am
by Bella

Lucia

Feeling sad

I divorced my husband almost 2 year ago after 34 yrs of marriage because he said something that I took it seriously even though he told me that he did not meant it ....kind of a threat which I never heard him saying when we had few arguments now and than but nothing...

Views: 255 Replies: 4

Last Post: Dec 16, 2021 10:27am
by Lucia

monique

No contact after 30 years and 3 kids

I’m still angry weeks after my ex texted me telling me not to reach out anymore because he’s in a “very serious relationship “. I ONLY EVER texted on his birthday, Christmas and Fathers Day. No calls no nothing else. So after his birthday t...

Views: 156 Replies: 5

Last Post: Dec 13, 2021 9:14pm
by monique

Sam

Husband left says he wants a divorce but nothing since

Any advice or words of encouragement would be helpful. He left the house then later that day messaged me he wanted a divorce. He hasn’t shared any additional details since. I’m very worried about the future. Our 3 year old daughter seems to be having a...

Views: 222 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 13, 2021 6:54am
by Kelly

Mona

Finally ex husband gave up

Hello It has been 14 months that I filed for divorce When My ex received the divorce papers he was begging me to go back to him and I was ignoring all his texts After 2 months from the divorce he finally gave up and is no longer texting me My ex is an controlling...

Views: 139 Replies: 0

Last Post: Dec 11, 2021 8:46pm
by Mona

Sam

My husband isn’t interested in me

Views: 172 Replies: 2

Last Post: Dec 11, 2021 4:20pm
by G

Lola

Is it mental or narcissism?

My 60 yrs old husband suffers from panic attacks and he has been taking the medicine for over 30 years which help him tremendously with his panic attacks my question is ? We have been married for 34 years and for the last 30 years he usually gets angry 😡 fast , h...

Views: 214 Replies: 4

Last Post: Dec 11, 2021 2:28pm
by Gina

Jessica V.

Currently Starting a Divorce

My husband after 13 years and 4 months of separation said that he wants a divorce. He does not want to work on anything nor go to counseling and is not going to change his mind. I miss him terribly and very worried about the financial aspect because he makes 4 times...

Views: 183 Replies: 1

Last Post: Dec 7, 2021 6:55pm
by Joellen

Help 4 all

Child upbringing cost enquiry

Hi, Child arrangement is set by the Court order as below; Dad has Wednesday nights and every other weekend. Pick-up time is set at 5:30 pm as I wasn't working at that time. I get £47 a week from CMS out of dad's 44k salary and pay all costs of my child. N...

Views: 233 Replies: 0

Last Post: Dec 7, 2021 10:46am
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