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Cat

Hurting

I share a child with a man. Been in each other lives for 9 years. We’ve split up once while our kid was 1 for about a year. Other than that one year we’ve lived together and parented together. He has other kids with another women before me. We had an abso...

Views: 178 Replies: 0

Last Post: Aug 13, 2022 9:17pm
by Cat

Patricia P

Screwed up-

Hello, I am just starting the divorce process after being together for 28 years. He asked for the divorce and I gave in. We started out being in love for the first 3 years of our marriage. He told me that he was falling out of love with me. He was using the comput...

Views: 137 Replies: 0

Last Post: Aug 13, 2022 7:46pm
by Patricia P

AKM

So close to leaving...

Last night, it was the last straw. I told my husband finally that one more outburst and I was divorcing him. I've been told for the last year that he wants to know how I feel, wants me to talk to him, but when I do, I have to pick and choose words otherwise I'm "dumb...

Views: 178 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 12, 2022 11:19am
by Anon

Kii

ex trying to withdraw from 529 for himself

I been googling with no success in finding the answer to my concern. I been divorced for the past 3 years and needless to say it was a hell on earth from the person I've married to for 30 years. To make the long story shorts, he raise hell when I asked for a divorce...

Views: 133 Replies: 0

Last Post: Aug 12, 2022 9:02am
by Kii

Rebecca

Is this type of behavior Controlling or Acceptable ?

Hi My husband and I own few properties, When I receive texts from tenants asking for something ,I like to respond on what needs to be done and my husband tells me that I do not have to reply on the tenants right away … But I do it anyway because is our respo...

Views: 195 Replies: 9

Last Post: Aug 11, 2022 8:06am
by Carey

Carey

Husband refuses divorce over spousal support

My husband is cruel verbally abusive name calling telling me nonone loves me and controlling in every aspect, criticizes my food intake and more. Cannot share feelings or thoughts hence the loneliness he will not let me go unless i deny spousal support which i am ent...

Views: 184 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 11, 2022 8:00am
by Carey

Considering Divorce

Hi so this is kind of a long story not gonna give all the details but give you enough to give me some advice.. So last month my husband confessed to me that he have been paying to speak to women online for about the last year and a 1/2 to 2 years. We have been togeth...

Views: 212 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 11, 2022 2:08am
by Be

Colleen

Going through a divorce now

I am going through a divorce now after 35 years marriage I am the one that filed for divorce because of his controlling and manipulative personalities and the anger even worst . He has not threatened me during the divorce or before but…. He has been sending...

Views: 244 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 9, 2022 12:12pm
by Kelly

Ready for change

Friends dont understand and aren't supportive

I'm a few months into my divorce, we are still living together and it's been hell on earth for me. Every day I put on a brave face in front of the kids and don't talk about what a royal ass their dad is being to me. But with friends I would like to vent and talk abo...

Views: 169 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 9, 2022 12:01pm
by Kelly

Soon to be second time divorced 😭

Lost and alone

I married a man shortly after divorcing my first husband. He was kind and supportive and fun. That quickly changed and his lying nature became apparent soon after we were married. I discovered he was smoking marijuana and adamantly denied this when I asked (he knew I...

Views: 277 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 8, 2022 9:50am
by Carey

Melanie

About an Ex- Husband actions

I filed for divorce about 1 1/2 year ago after a long marriage and is still not done, because of division of properties that we still debating for it . My question is: Did someone in this forum went through this situation that I am having now ? I was marriage for...

Views: 162 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 8, 2022 9:34am
by Carey

Sasha

Feels like I was scammed

I have been married for 3 years to my husband. We were together 13 years before we decided to get married. I was very hesitant to get married because I was afraid he was going to change. Afraid that he would be controlling and all that other stuff just because he was...

Views: 162 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 6, 2022 9:40pm
by Sasha

Ashley

Feeling hopeless and suicidal

I have a brain tumor that is inoperable and causes me chronic pain and seizures. My soon to be ex husband cheated on me multiple times, mooched off of me when I shouldn't have even been working, and never put any effort or care into our relationship. I can't even get...

Views: 207 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 6, 2022 1:38pm
by NeedsDivorce

Louise

Confused 🫤

I just found out from my 30 years marriage that my husband confessed that he loves me but he doesn’t like me ! I asked him Why and why he stayed with me for so long He said nothing 😐 weird Would you stay in an marriage if one of your spouse does not like...

Views: 195 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 5, 2022 9:12am
by Kaz

Julie

A text from an ex

Hello Everyone I am still in the process from a divorce which is not final yet…it has been one year that I filed for divorce because of his controlling ways, arguments that never ends in peace, he told me piece of **** , your are a stressful person , he always...

Views: 145 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 2, 2022 11:45am
by Julie

Cathy

Cyber affairs

I am very frustrated with my husband and feel that mediation/divorce is the only solution. My husband continues to lie to me. He has a history of gambling. My daughter recently showed me several inappropriate sexual messages he has sent to scantily clad women in thei...

Views: 145 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 1, 2022 10:02pm
by ZH

Ruta

Maybe someone wants to share stories and support each other?

Hello, I had a divorce 1 year ago but still don't know how to live. Is someone else having issues with dealing every day life, not knowing what to do with broken heart and shattered expectations? I believe there are a lot of people that have feelings similar to mine....

Views: 178 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 1, 2022 7:39am
by ZH

Spell caster

Are you going into the court or desire to save your marriage

In a court room, the innocent can become the guilty and vice versa.. don't invest your hopes in a lawyer, you could be disappointed.. I'm into witchcraft and sorcery and I can guarantee you victory against all odds.. send me a mail to discuss (goodluck spell)🧿🧿...

Views: 124 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:30pm
by Spell caster

Luvlee

Still living with my husband

He seems to hate me , he resents me and often ignores me. He makes me feel like I’m to blame for everything mainly because of how I reacted to him having an affair, in his opinion I should have stayed silent I should have allowed for us to deal with this situat...

Views: 198 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:29pm
by Spell caster

Karla

Adult kids involved

Would anyone in the forum will stay on an 40 years marriage for the sake of our adults kids , just to make peace in the Family . I don’t like my Husband anymore, but our grown kids like their Father and they are suggesting me to stay since my husband and I inv...

Views: 150 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:28pm
by Spell caster

Christina

31 years and he wants a divorce

I have been with my husband since I was 15. We have two boys 29 and 23. We have had our ups and downs. He doesn't like to talk about stuff where as I talk everything out. Back in February he said he feels nothing towards me anymore and he thinks that the marriage is...

Views: 220 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:25pm
by Witch lady

Sophie 18

Stopped contributing toward the mortgage

The court has awarded me 65% of the equity of the sale of the home. My very soon to be ex husband has now decided to stop his contributions toward the mortgage, he was paying 62.5 % of the monthly payments and I was 37.5% due to the fact that is salary is three time...

Views: 124 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:24pm
by Witch lady

Angela

Violent (examples)

What are examples of violent in a husband? I know hitting , pushing, slapping . What else? Thanks

Views: 164 Replies: 10

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:22pm
by Witch lady

Victoria

10 years of my life wasted

My husband of 10 years decided to file for divorce. We had an amazing relationship until we had our daughter at which point he started drinking after work everyday or 4/5 days a week. He was almost never home. Changed maybe 10 diapers lifetime. I cooked and took c...

Views: 179 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 5:15pm
by Lady Morgana

Victoria

Divorce papers in California

How long after divorce papers are filed in California are the divorce papers served? If the spouse lives out of state and divorce papers are mailed Who is responsible for mailing them? The county clerk or the spouse filing the divorce papers?

Views: 125 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 29, 2022 10:35am
by Lily

Sheila

Divorce not final 🤔

It has been almost 2 years that I filed for divorce the reason it is not final is because he still debating with the division of properties we built together, in another words he is not cooperating and my lawyer gave his lawyer a deadline already . Every time he get...

Views: 130 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 24, 2022 7:47pm
by Sheila

Aileen

Sick husband

Good Evening I have not getting along with my 63 years old husband , He has heart problems for almost 5 years and other sickness … he still can be independent of himself. I cannot handle his anger issues for many years. I have to think before talking to h...

Views: 146 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 24, 2022 3:45pm
by Kaz

Lisav

Still married but getting divorced

We’ve had our share of arguments. He’s been recording and documenting. We have a 5yr old who will be devastated. I’ve been telling him to communicate with me, to talk to me then I uttered divorce and recanted. Now he’s been having an affair fo...

Views: 159 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 24, 2022 3:22pm
by Kaz

Lilian

Is it consider infidelity?

Hello I have a question? I am married for 28 years and I found out from a friend of mine that my husband went out couple of times with a women friend that we both know without telling me ! At times I had a gut feeling that something was going on between them (No S...

Views: 191 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 24, 2022 7:40am
by Lily

Daisy

Definition of adultery

Is an emotional affair you can prove sufficient to claim adultery to end marriage or do you have to prove they slept together

Views: 141 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 23, 2022 1:24pm
by Lily

Daisy

Need money advice

Hi all need some advice. Discovered husband of 25yrs was having an affair. Checking banking records to see what else he was lying about. I earn a good salary he contributes to house bills when he can. Discovered he was funneling money from house checking into his pri...

Views: 154 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 20, 2022 7:26pm
by Sasha

Ashley

Should I Be Friends With Him?

I asked for a divorce not too long ago after a very short marriage because I found out that he had cheated on me multiple times. I never felt valued in our relationship for many reasons and Honestly I'm still kinda traumatized by what has happened. On top of this, he...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 19, 2022 9:38pm
by Lisav

Dee

Am I divorced?

I looked up the court records and the final judgment says (rejected L-165 No POS). But my husband has already remarried for about 7 months. He filed.

Views: 150 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 19, 2022 2:20pm
by Ashley

Lizeth

Is it sufficient?

Is “LOVE” enough to stay or keep a marriage? As long there is no domestic violence

Views: 133 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 18, 2022 6:27pm
by Ashley

Luna

Ex Keeps playing mind

Hi Finally my divorce is coming to an end almost 2 years of negotiations. When I filed for divorced , I did not tell him , I just walked away because I knew how manipulative and tempered person he is and also controlling . I did not seen him since the divorce is s...

Views: 160 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 17, 2022 7:40am
by Lily

Pat

Divorce after 42 years

Hi my husband and I are ending our. Marriage after 42 years he is 65 and am 64 . Any one going through this

Views: 220 Replies: 7

Last Post: Jul 15, 2022 11:01am
by Lily

Marie

Divorce help

Getting divorced after 15 years need some advice if possible

Views: 164 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 14, 2022 3:15pm
by Lily

Andy

Deeply Hurting

I had been with my ex for over 23 years. We were married for 14 of those years. During these years, I caught my ex cheating three separate times. This last time it was with two different women at his workplace. He had told them that he was no longer with me, that I w...

Views: 223 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 13, 2022 9:01am
by Diana

Debra Nissel

judicial prejudice

can the judge that was involved in my husbands criminal domestic abuse case preside over our civil divorce case?

Views: 136 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 12, 2022 8:25pm
by Debra Nissel

Luvlee

I just can’t comprehend

Hi everyone my name is G I have been married for 15 years now, at the end of September in 2020 I found out my husband had been having an affair with his supervisor literally just a few days shy of my birthday it literally broke my heart considering that I trusted him...

Views: 186 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 12, 2022 11:25am
by Luvlee

Nathalie

Love is blind !

My Friends and Family is asking me to leave my marriage because they know that the person I have been married for over 30 years is unkind, rude and controlling. He is like that sometimes ,but I got used to, it doesn’t bother me anymore. I have not met any one...

Views: 149 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 9, 2022 5:16pm
by Nathalie

Margie

About Love ❤️

Hello Everyone Is “ LOVE “sufficient to stay in an long marriage ? Married for 33 years , I feel lonely in this marriage after so many years together even though we go out for a date night once a week , vacations , church , movies etc… We donR...

Views: 127 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 8, 2022 4:53pm
by Margie

Mitch

Tired of being in limbo

I have been married to my husband for 11 years and I always thought we had a perfect marriage but something wasn’t right. We hardly had sex and he rejected and neglected me for 4 years then told me he was addicted to porn. We went to some counseling but he said...

Views: 169 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 7, 2022 7:45pm
by Mitch

My husband and I are going through a divorce, but I don't want it.

My husband fell out of love with me, but I still love him. I don't want a divorce. I'm having a really hard time. I'm emotionally exhausted. We're separated and living apart but I still fight for us. I've lost myself and I wonder if it's time to let him go, but it hu...

Views: 189 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 7, 2022 9:55am
by Marla

Hurt Wife

Getting through heartbreak

My marriage started out so great and I just knew that this was my forever. In the beginning before we got married there was signs of him talking to other women, but I just gave him an ultimatum. He seemed to have been doing what he was supposed to be doing up until a...

Views: 201 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 7, 2022 9:51am
by Marla

Veronica

Don’t know what to do !

I have been dating for almost 2 years I like him very much but I am not in love with him . We always have good times , nice conversations, we get along … but I have a feeling that some day he will pop the question to married him. Is it important to be in lov...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 7, 2022 9:43am
by Marla

Blanca

not loving my husband

Dear all, has anyone of you ended up with the strong awareness that you don´t love your husband? I will give some explanation. I married my husband who was my best friend at the time, after a 9years troubled relationship. Back then, I thought I loved him but th...

Views: 323 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 6, 2022 7:41pm
by April

Veronica

Emotional reck

I have been divorced and now dating someone for almost 3 years. He’s never been married or had any kids… but I’m having the hardest time connecting with him is it me or him? Any advice is welcomed

Views: 136 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 5, 2022 6:00pm
by Veronica

Val

I am with a loser and I want to leave him so bad but I feel bad for my son

I am so fed up about my relationship. I have been with this guy for over 10 years now, and in these 10 years he hasn't worked a day. I am supporting him and my son (18 months) financially and have not been able to have a mature conversation about this in years becaus...

Views: 160 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 4, 2022 6:09pm
by Lily

Lily

The other side

Even though change happens to us everyday in small ways it is unsettling to most. Ruts become our safety zones.It was partially my fear of change that kept me in a toxic marriage for the greater part of my lifetime. Divorce turns your world upside down. I have experi...

Views: 177 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jul 3, 2022 8:11pm
by Val