In the initial first steps of a divorce. He wants to take my son for full custody so he doesn't have to pay. Married for almost 10 years he cheated on me with someone at work

I’m so sorry you are going through that. I can’t imagine how hard it is with kids involved. My husband decided he needed to separate in order to grow himself and look after his own happiness. We were together for 9 years. We were about to start trying for children. He bought a house with me a year and a half ago, watched me come off birth control. I’m mourning him, my marriage, my future. It really sucks. Please feel free to talk to me if you need to vent.