My boyfriend recently told me I was "the only woman in America who is afraid of commitment." Of course he was exaggerating bc we were in kind of an argument. But anyway, he kind of has a point bc I had brought up the topic of us moving in together months ago and was changing my mind. But is anyone else out there terrified of commitment and making a mistake again? You can read more about the background on my blog
https://emotionalpackrat.blogspot.com

A new commitment after a disaster relationship can be acceptable but NOT forever.
If your new person shows you he’s ( she) not the same as your ex you should try that new relationship
You may not want to be married right away but you can moved together and see how things can go.
If they doesn’t work out just move back out and life continue
Do not have kids or married until you live together for a while and see how things worked out

Good luck