Have someone helping me through this divorce,a co worker and she has given me some great advice.Her name is Holly and she has been through what I am going through,her ex husband also cheated on her and booted his butt out.Told me her experience from the divorce which she did clean him out a year ago,this was today during our lunch break.One big piece of advice Holly gave me was keep my head up high and stay strong through it.Holly was glad I did get a great divorce lawyer and this helps out.I am listening to her very well and she has been living a much better life now.