My husband came out and told me he has gender dysphoria and in the process of transitioning to be a woman.

He wants us to remain married, but I recently found out he has had an affair with another man.

I'm trying to find out which court system in the greater Seattle area is the best to file, and judge who will support me a straight spouse mother with toddler children.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated, as I know the PNW is very liberal and my husband did not disclose anything to me when we married.