Moving back to midwest from southwest to be with family for support. Totally lost my path of me. Hope it helps. I was married to first one for 2 years when very young and have a beautiful smart daughter. This one together for 7 years, married for 4. empty nesters. controlling, codependent unhealthy relationship issues he gave up on us and not there for me when I needed him, even though I was for him, it was emotionally exhausting. Learned much about myself and now just trying to get back up from being kicked to the curb.