I've had the shock of my life as 2 weeks ago my husband told me he was leaning on another woman emotionally. We're both in our 70's and she's 35. It's not just about her but I had pulled away from him because he's put us in bankruptcy twice and we're close to it again. I lost all respect and should have left years ago. I'm looking at apartments and can't afford that much. I'm in such emotional turmoil. Our whole family has turned on him but I don't want that. I'm just venting but so glad I found this group.