I'm not sure how this works but I hope it helps. I have been reading all of the posts on here and its like I'm listening to myself talk. I'm currently going through divorce was married for 26 years. 3 wonderful kids I am the one who wanted the divorce.
we have had issues for about 20 years with communication which means he doesn't communicate. my story is long and sad but i knew i had to get out before the loneliness and depression caused me to try and take my life again.
I am so so scared that this emptiness will never go away.
today we went to court and he found out that im asking for spousal support and he got extremely upset.
Going through similar situation. I just did a fabulous course on cognitive development. From it, and from my past experiences, I realized I have to create my own next path, NOT look back, and do something emotionally nourishing each day.