I literally don’t know what to think or where to turn! My husband has just said he wants a divorce! I just need to put it out there. I don’t feel like I can talk to my friends it will make it too real! How do I process this! We have two young children and I’m literally in shock. Things haven’t been great for about 18 months but now it’s done over finito!

Nessa: See a Family Lawyer who handles divorce ASAP. Sometimes the first consultation is free. Make sure you get your child support. Protect yourself financially. Close all joint credit card accounts and get your own.