Hello again
Thank you for your wise words ....
Thank GOD our financial situation is well...after dividing the assets iI will survive financially when the divorce is finalized Even though I chose few Rental Properties that I will be managing myself (which I know how to handle )
I am trying my best not to think about him... but sometimes I cannot control my feelings....when I get emotional my Kids worry and get sad seeing myself go through this (they are afraid that I will go back to him and will make the same mistake by forgiving him just like I did in 2011 when I filed for separation) which I will not ....and I do not want to go back to him even as a friend (it is what it is ) I have to be strong
I am trying my best
Maybe this is what GOD wanted me to do to make this decision to divorce him
And punishing him for cheating on me and treating me the way he did or treating other people with no respect or mercy ....
Once the divorce is over I will get a place to call my own ...does not matter how big or small
I wished I could do this now but I will wait until the divorce is settled ...
One of my friends told me (he was never a happy camper) he does not know what he had until he looses
I am not perfect either but I will never be disrespectful or treat anyone bad ...
(Treat the person the way you want to be treated )
Nobody is perfect
Like you mentioned all I want to live a peaceful life
I did search on (gaslighting) There are some of this character on him (you are right)
Thank you again Kaz
You are the best 👍 🤗
Wishing you the best of everything 🙏✌️

Good Morning Kaz
Hope you are well!
When I heard him talking to his male friend he said (he got used to being alone but it is sad being alone and he is too old to find somebody )
Why I feel sorry for him ???
Even though I do not want him back in my life
I missed my 3 (three) little dogs more than I missed him
Stay safe 🙏
God Bless you