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Re: I want to leave my mentally and physically abusive husband but I have zero support

Report your passport as stolen and get a new one sent to your parents’ address.

Don’t kill you self because your a a VALUED, lovely woman. Don’t let the abusive loser you’re currently married take your life. Go ahead with the divorce process. Your parents are guided by tradition and religion, not by logic and reason ie-That you’re being very abused by this man. You are not a slave. Not worthless. Not powerless. You are a grown woman who can make her own choices and decisions. Try to keep away from him and his toxic family as much as you can.

Here is an article I found online - I think it may be for you local area???

The Victim Support Centre (VSC) of Dhaka Metropolitan Police (DMP) has brought an opportunity for many oppressed women and children as they are getting various services, including legal assistance, from there.


Many victims visit the centre every day and take legal assistance, counselling support, shelter and rehabilitation facilities. They can discuss their problems frankly with police personnel as all the officials of VSC are women, sources said.


The VSC deals with the victims of rape, abduction, trafficking and domestic violence, and missing children, disabled persons and other women and children victims.

The first VSC of Bangladesh was established at the compound of Tejgaon Police Station in the capital on February 17, 2009. Later, eight more VSCs were set up in seven divisional cities and Rangamati.


The VSC provides a wide range of services, including emergency shelter and immediate support, healthcare, legal advice and support, psychological advice and counselling, to the victims.


They also provide training and capacity building for rehabilitation of the victims and support for re-integration into family and community.


According to the annual reports of VSC, around 2,557 women and children victims took services from there in the last five years. The VSC officials dealt with 462 cases in 2016. Of them, 127 were rape cases, 103 abduction cases, 46 sexual harassment cases, 173 dowry cases, four acid-related cases and nine other cases.


Later, the VSC resolved 291 cases by submitting charge sheets to court. The remaining 171 cases are under investigation.


With the partnership of 10 NGOs, the Victim Support Centre is serving women and children victims by providing legal assistance, counselling support and rehabilitation facilities.

The NGOs are Ain O Salish Kendra, Association for Community Development, Association for Correction and Social Reclamation, Aparajeyo Bangladesh, Acid Survivors Foundation, Bangladesh National Women Lawyers’ Association, Bangladesh Mahila Parishad, Bangladesh Legal Aid and Services Trust, Dhaka Ahsania Mission and Marie Stopes.


According to the officials, the VSC has the accommodation facilities for 24 women and children. They can stay up to 5 days. In addition, shelter in particular cases is provided for more than five days.The centre is open 24 hours a day. From assistant commissioner to constable, 86 women police are working at the centre.


The VSC makes arrangements for long-term rehabilitation for the orphans, homeless, abandoned, disabled, destitute and isolated elderly persons with the help of NGOs.


All types of urgent needs and services, including medical aid, trauma recovery counselling, emotional support, have been given to the survivors at VSC.


The VSC provides a solution to the women and children victim as against the uneasiness and inconveniences they face during their stay-period especially at night in a police station.

Re: I want to leave my mentally and physically abusive husband but I have zero support

Wonderful.Awesome practical advice. I agree completely.