I feel that my demise will begin when we go to trial. How can I get out of it. Some judge is going to decide if he gets half of my 401k make me sell the house without any monetary help from him. He is 71 and addicted to meth. I do have a NCO order til 2022. Can I get out of going to court?

Does your state have fault divorce? If it does and you can prove meth use you might be able to keep more.

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