It's okay to admit that him moving on bothers you. I find it quite disrespectful to rub it in your face. I agree that he should have waited. I wish you all the best on your journey. It is definitely a process that you have to work through but I am sure you will get through this. In time, the pain will heal and you will be able to hear things that truly won't bother you. I was in denial that my Husband sneaking around didn't affect me and we are not even separated yet. But the marriage is over. It does bother me and I process that hurt and know that one day, I won't hurt anymore. I hope that you are able to get through this all and find true love in someone else.

I would just say it shows his level of evolution as a person.

He can't stand being alone with himself so he has to have another relationship before the other comes to a conclusion.

That speaks volumes about him and it speaks volumes about you, meaning you are strong.

But I will say for me, when I finally leave I might be like him to a point just for the shear fact I haven't had sex in my entire 23 years of marriage and honestly I have waited long enough.