@Angela... that sounds exactly like what he is doing. Trying to lose weight, Purchasing new clothes and shoes, walking around as if he is so happy, speaking in "code" when I come around and so much more. It's so hurtful and annoying. Just when I think I'm getting my strength, he does something that tears me back down. I am over it. Thank you so much for your response. I don't know why some men act this way. I hope your situation gets better! I will definitely try to get out of the house. I think I'm falling into depression 😔