I had a similar situation... And we agreed on absolutely nothing, however we presented to the mediator / judge in order to not uproot the children they stay in the home with the custodial parent until they are through high school or college whichever applies to your case... Judge is almost always side in the best interest of the children... It doesn't give you the house or him the house it just gives you possession and use of the house until the children are grown

Thank you so much for the information I have a 14 year old, he will be a freshman this year and a 17 year old who is a senior. I really don’t want uproot the kids at this point in their lives. The only issue is that I can’t afford the house on my own so he would have help me the mortgage. I will definitely bring this up to my lawyer and go from there. I have decided that I can not be working agreeing on a settlement on my own. It is just too depressing.