Thank you so much for the information I have a 14 year old, he will be a freshman this year and a 17 year old who is a senior. I really don’t want uproot the kids at this point in their lives. The only issue is that I can’t afford the house on my own so he would have help me the mortgage. I will definitely bring this up to my lawyer and go from there. I have decided that I can not be working agreeing on a settlement on my own. It is just too depressing.