Hello Angela
Yes
It is my husband
I do not want to leave because I feel sorry for him (I do not know Why?) and because 35 yrs of marriage is a long time to just give up (he is the one that tells me how miserable he feels when I do not agree with him) and also I am 60 yrs old and he is the one that took my Virginity away ☺️
That is why I do not want to leave this marriage
I got used to Or he brained washed me (he likes to manipulate me and other people )

And also he had a heart condition that I know that his Cardiolgist told us that will not get better as his age progresses (he feels ok for now)