Did he actually ‘cheat’ ? If counselling was helpful, why not continue?
If there’s an opportunity to save your relationship, do you want to try, or have you already decided you want ‘out’ no matter what?
We can’t possibly know what his reaction will be, nor whether he’ll suffer with his health as we don’t know him or his history.
Have you found someone else you want to be with? Is that’s what’s happening?
No
I have not found someone else and do not plan to have any man in my life
We did tried counseling but nothing changed
He did cheat on me I have proof and I confronted him and his answers was
(Nothing happened and also he said I did not meant to hurt me)
I don’t believe him
I do not think this marriage can be save even though we have been together for a long time and the way he used to take care of his parents was unbelievable disrespectful ... (God rest their soul )
He used to Yelled to his Father and at each other , not loving feeling, always ended up arguing with each other , he even took walking cane from his Father hands and tried to kick him out of the place we were ....
I am even afraid to grow old together if I become disabled the way he treated his parents scared me
I used to take care of them taking to the doctor appointment when needed ....
He loose his patience very fast
Probably is for the best even though it hurt me