Hire a private detective! You don’t have any concrete evidence yet. You may be completely wrong…Check his bank accounts, phone bills, internet history…
The note I found the hotel receipt I found and knowing she works at that house because the rent application shows where a person work or do for a living
At times I would notice that my husband will close his office door (leaving a little gap ) will text her so I do not see what he is doing and when I will open the door he will hide right away
And the neighbors that live in the same complex mentioned to me that she would dress up etc....which was unusual to them .
And also the day they went to the concert she mentioned that he treated her like an gentleman Why he would lie to her that I was taking care of my Aunt that day ??
I know there is something going on between them it is a gut feeling even though he said nothing happen
I do not believe him
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I would suggest talking with someone to help you organize your thoughts and plans. A counselor, maybe or a divorce attorney if that is your plan.
I think you need to calm down and make a plan. Don't take any hasty actions that may hurt you in the long run. For example, before I filed for divorce my attorney advised me not to leave the marital home (I was planning to move to my sister's house until the divorce was finalized.)
Find out what you need to do to protect yourself, your rights and secure your assets. Don't show your hand until you have your stuff in order. If he is lying and hiding things, you don't want to give him a chance to mess with your finances for example. Meet with an attorney and go from there.