Yes it matters who files first. If you file don’t leave.
Stay in your residence don’t move out first. Will he leave?

Then you do counseling for YOU.

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Thanks Anthony

If you believe a divorce is likely, I suggest meeting with a divorce attorney who can advise you on your best steps moving forward.

Good luck!
Kelly