Sounds like he doesn’t want to try. If you have to keep repeating yourself on how you want to to be treated or heard then is it worth it? Everyone deserves happiness! Maybe you
Should join a volunteer group to meet people and get out more?
Have you considered marriage counseling? Are you both willing to work on your marriage. I found it very helpful, also going by myself was very helpful to me as I learned different ways to act/react and was able to change my role in our relationship.