We are both in our 60’ s
How long does it take to heal a broken heart after 3 decades of marriage
After an silly argument he filed for divorce just because I did not agree with him ( most of our arguments is ?we are never in the same page and he always think that he is right )
He just walked away without me knowing and suddenly after couple of days I was served with the divorce papers
I am sad by his decision i was not expecting that he would file for divorce
I even do not know what I did to him
I have been calling and he is not responding to any of my phone calls
He has been ignoring me
I sent a video of myself apologizing if I did say anything to upset him begging to come back so we can talk
He is still ignoring me
Last week I felt and broke my finger and he has not even came to rescue me when I texted him and told him I am in the hospital getting stitches
This is not the first time he walked away from me after an argument
I don’t know what to do ??
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My heart breaks for you because you have a broken heart. My intuition based on all you have said is you are in a mind set where you are blaming everything on yourself, and that is probably based on the dynamics of the relationship you have built over the years with your husband. I would search out for yourself a good therapist, because if the divorce proceeds you are going to need support and have a professional help you navigate it. If you cannot afford a therapist go to a woman's trauma center. I hope things work out for you.
Teresa