Doesn’t sound like the happiest or most respectful of marriages to start with? I’d see a lawyer. He’s thrown out items that belonged to you, without your permission. I’m not sure if he was legally permitted to do that. Only you can know what your marriage is like and whether you think it’s worth working on. He sounds very angry with you though-covering the tattoo of your name seems a pretty strong message to the world; as does the new pool table (frat style, single men’s fun house)…

I absolutely agree!!! He is only thinking of how he can hurt me and live his life. I am certain he has someone else and is even willing to give up his children and move on like we never happened. EVEN HIS CHILDREN 🤯. IM SO MAD AT MYSELF FOR WVEN LETTING IT GET THIS FAR🤦‍♀️😡💔