How he chaises to worship is his choice and how you choose to, is your choice :) I’m a Christian but I feel I don’t need to go to church/sit in a building to demonstrate my faith. Does he think that sitting in a church daily make him a better Christian than others/you-If so, what a conceited and shallow/narrow-minded view he has! Tell him to practice a bit of Christian ‘forgiveness’ towards you by not bullying you!

It’s not like you’ve refused to go to church: You’re going 4 times per month as it is. He’s sounds a bit fanatical. Jesus didn’t command ‘Thou shalt go to church everyday, or I’ll view you as a lesser Christian, or as a sinner’ did he?! Your husband needs to chill out :)