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2nd divorce

New here. Second husband of 10 years is leaving me. It’s never been a great marriage as we both brought old issues into our marriage. I’m still distraught and scared of starting over AGAIN. I didn’t want my first divorce (infidelity on his part) and I don’t want this one either. My husband blames me for everything to destroy this marriage. It’s not the case but I can’t seem to get through to him. He takes zero responsibility. I’ve been abandoned before and it’s happening again. No infidelity in this marriage. Im embarrassed, feel like a failure, and see no hope.

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Hi, sounds similar to my situation. Second husband of 16 years is leaving. He suddenly blames me for everything. My first divorce was due to ex’s infidelity. He doesn’t want to work on fixing the marriage. He said he’s just done. How can someone you love suddenly become a stranger? He is staying until he finds a place to go and told me if I say anything he’ll walk away now. Very uncomfortable having him here and yet I don’t want him gone. Like you, I also feel like a failure. 😞