I am in the same exact boat with two kids and being married for 21 years! It’s so hurtful but honestly… I’m so ready to be out of this verbally abusive relationship! It’s so toxic that my close friends have time snd time again say..”I don’t understand why your still going through this.” But I feel I’m trapped and he’s planning on leaving after our son has graduated high school. He has put all business assets into his business partners name for a reason… divorce! So I’ll be screwed in the end. I totally and purely get where your coming from. It’s sooooo hurtful and lonely!