My husband after 13 years and 4 months of separation said that he wants a divorce. He does not want to work on anything nor go to counseling and is not going to change his mind. I miss him terribly and very worried about the financial aspect because he makes 4 times as much as I do. Someone told me I will be fine, that the discrepancy in income will likely end up with spousal maintenance. We do not have any children either. I am just so devastated over this and anxious all through time about the financial situation.