Let him have the video chats with his son, Have a relative hold the Child while he is having his conversation with the Child, Do not discuss financial support while he is having time with the child, that you can deal with your legal counsel. I also believe seek your Higher Power's Guidance, the God of Your Understanding, if you choose. You have many years ahead of you and everyday is a challenge.
Heavy Rains Remind us of Challenges in Life, Never Ask for a Lighter Rain, Just Pray to God For A Stronger Umbrella.
Kind Regards Sarah