I completely understand and I am so glad you are seeking help with a therapist. It’s so helpful! I didn’t think it would be, but it certainly is helping me.
If I was you, I would go. Like your therapist said, there are plenty of caregivers to help him when he gets older. I understand you don’t want him to be on his own, I feel that way about my husband too, I’m the end though it is up to him to try and find someone new. Maybe once he knows you are not coming back he will be more motivated to do that. Men don’t like being on there own, it’s up to him to find someone
I am referring the way that Shelly replied
This message is for you Shelly How rude and have some respect
You do not know how we all feel in this forum until it happens to you
You will realize that we are all suffering and unhappy and still taking care of our husband until we all had enough
At least shows us some type of appreciation of what we all did
Hi Caroline
Thank you for you opinions and suggestions
But I am sure at his age at 64 yrs old with a heart problem and asthma it will be hard to find someone at that age and a health condition I just wish him well and best of luck
As much as it hurts me I cannot handle his personality anymore
Wish you well and be safe 🙏🤗
Let us all hope for the best
All he has is our 3 small dogs to keep him company if I decide to divorce him that he loves them so much probably more than me
I wish I could keep them but I won’t so they can be his companion
I will just adopt one when the times come
Take care