Thank you Cintia for your suggestion
Now a days is so hard to find a friend to confine
I am so sorry what you have been going through Too
I wish you the best and best of luck
Right?! We need to remember that isolation is the enemy. I tend to put myself in a shell and not talk to anyone. Not sure if that is your MO.
I have been crying everyday when he goes out. I have PTSD from hearing his ******* car start:astonished: Seriously, it paralyzes me. I race motorcycles and love extreme sports; and the sound of his bloody car paralyzes me.
I am so sorry that you are also going thru this. My dad did the same thing to my mom. He ended up with newborns at 50 and 53. One day he told my mother if he could take it all back he would. I think many times they realize what's happened (I understand that from when I've been in active addiction). It's like waking up one day and realizing you've been walking in a fog. It devastates the spouse.
Mine keeps saying we can still be friends. I'm like WTF this isn't a HS breakup arsehole :triumph: Their thought process is not logical and they either wake up from the fog or they don't.
We signed papers yesterday. I hope she or they (I think he's shopping around) gets pregnant and leaves him with child support LOL. He denies seeing someone, but his food even coffee has changed...and the new underwear is always a give away :joy:
Seriously though, I told him you do this and I will never see or speak to you again. After I kick him in the balls, I intend to keep that promise.:upside_down_face:
Give yourself a little fictitious scenario like that, and it helps on the days it really hurts.. Hugs sister.