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Use of the "N" word is racist and wrong. Use of the word "kinky" to describe the hair of a woman of color is offensive. You clearly stated in your first post that she didn't know your husband was married, so it cannot be her fault that he is being unfaithful. I am sorry that you are blaming everyone except him for his infidelity and I can't imagine why you would want him back. Best of luck to you, Kelly
I agree with Kelly , you are racist Turning on Janet the way you have is deplorable You say that your husband will be back as it is just a fling, do you think so low of yourself that you think this is acceptable ?